yo im new here. just to let everyone know im 17 and i live in the TeXas region. any ways im am uncut and im really close to getting in the sack with a chick i met at school. however im nervous that she will not like it and will refuse me both oral sex and regular. i hear girls on the net saying they dont care about being uncut but that cudnt be more wrong were i live. Girls down here are ignorant but there the only ones to have sex with. i hear girls saying how disgusting it is even though theyve never had sex or seen a natural penis in real life. the ones that have had sex will tell girls never to sleep with so and so cuz they heard he was uncut by someone in the locker room. even a close friend of mine whose a girl tells me its disgusting beacuse she heard it from a friend of hers. do you think i should just get a circumcision? how would i ask my parents or do yall think i should wait till im 18. i never talk anything to my parnets about my private parts. when i was 8 they told me i wasnt cut cuz the dr. didnt think it was neccesary. Also i read that a dr. would not give me a circ if i did not need one. is that true? im sorry to rant on but now that im getting close to sexual activity im just nervous as hell. and for u uncut guys out ther does it hurt like hell loosing your virginity? i heard that you have to pull out a whole bunch and the skin gets in the way. ne advice especially from the ladies would be more that appreciated. tanx
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Circumcision question?
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Hey bud, I'm not a lady but I have lots of information for you. First, I'm uncut just like you and know alot about your equipment and what its like to be uncut, especially when you keep getting so much awful information and you already feel different than others. Any girl who won't be with you because you're uncut isn't worth your time or effort, that is so vain it makes me cringe and should you too!
Don't worry about sexual intercourse bud, our equipment is made for it and you'll be just fine. And no, you don't have to pull out more than anyone else just because you're uncut. I do have a question for you though, are you able to fully retract your foreskin and move it onto the shaft of your penis without pain or difficulty? If not, we may need to talk about that just a bit....
NO, you don't need to get a circumcision, unless of course there is a medical reason and you haven't given me any indication that one is necessary so far. You're fine just the way you are man, actually all of us are supposed to be this way, its the way men are created. However, circumcision started for some reason a long time ago and in this country it became the norm, rather than the exception. The US is the only place where more of us are cut than not...but things here are changing as well....more and more parents are choosing not to circumise because there really is no reason to do it, physically anyway. We've just got a bit more to do in terms of cleaning and working with it.So, don't worry about being uncut bud, if you need some help, need more encouragement or need to figure other things out about it just let me know. I'll be glad to help you any way I can!
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Yea, what lance said.It's ridiculous to want to get a circumcision and go through that kind of pain or change a part of who you ARE, just to please some stupid teenage girl. No offense, but if a girl doesn't like you because of what your penis looks like, then maybe she wasn't good for you after all.I'm uncut too, and I'm just learning to kind of work with that now, but I've never had any sexual experiences as of yet.
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yeah im able able to fully retract it both soft and hard without ne difficulty. ive heard its painful though and i can see this being true cuz even though i can retract the head is still sensative. does it really hurt when u first have intercourse?
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It shouldn't hurt when you first have intercourse. It might if the head is still sensitive, though, so it's a good idea to get the head used to a bit of rubbing.People whose frenulum is too short can find first intercourse painful, but that doesn't seem to be a problem for you.
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Hey bud, it won't hurt! HOwever you do need to work with the head of your penis, the more you expose it to touch through rubbing and such, the less sensitive it will be. It will be incredibly pleasureable for you during masturbation and intercourse....alll of our pleasure is in the head of our penis! Feel free to keep in touch and let us know how things are going.