Hi, I'm 14 years old and need your opinion. I ahve had a crush on the same girls for over 4 years. In grades 4-6 we teased each other like kids who like each other do. Then in last year I found out that she liked another boy. He asked her out and she said no. They are friends now, and I think they still like each other. They talk to each other and do stuff together. In school we flirt and talk. At the last dance her friends came up to me a few times and told me to if I asked her to dance she would. But I didn't now I wish I did. I am to sure if I should ask her out, I would like to know your opinion.
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A certain girl
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Well.. Its a tough call... There is a chance you could ruin a perfectly good relationship.. But there is also a chance you can live happly ever after.. I dont ask girls out anymore.. Screw em`.. lol.. But its a hard call for me.. But if you think you have a chance.. go for it.. Good luck
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I also think it's a hard call. I went out with my best friend that I've known for 4 years now. We broke up, but today I realized that our friendship was stronger than it ever was. So, in my case I asked her out, things didn't work out, but we're still really good friends.
I think it's well worth the risk of asking her out. Just go up to her and ask, "what do you think about us being together?" depending on her reaction is to that, you'll know what to do.
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I think those friends of her were giving you a strong hint. I'd go for it. If you don't, you'll always wonder what would have happened if you did.
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yeah go for it, if you don't, you always wonder and regret not asking her. and if you guys are as close as you say you are, she won't stop being your friend, and it could alwasy bring you closer together. so go for it and good luck!
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you'll never know what the answer is unless you ask the one n only question hunnie
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Does anyone else have an opinion? I was also wondering how I should ask. Should I e-mail her, call her, or ask her to go somewhere with me then ask her? By the way i am very shy.
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It really pays to do it in person. I know it's hard to muster up the courage, but get psyched and just do it. Be confident, girl's love it when a guy is confident.
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hell yeah!! hehehe. go to he house and surprise her, take her out for a walk and then ask her.
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I say ... GO FOR IT ... cuz u never know if she likes you the same way back but is hiding it too ...
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I think asking her out anyway except directly to her face is sorta chicken shit. I would suggest that you stand up straight like a confident young man and say, "Suzy(?), how would you like to go see a movie with me Friday night. I don't like to go by myself and I don't know anyone that I enjoy being around than you. At that point just keep looking in her eyes and wait for a response.