Your hormones are going at the speed of light, you need to have a girl naked with you and you need it now... that is what is happening to you. It happens to all of us.If you really love her, you will wait, but you also have to think about yourself. so the best thing here is to be honest, and talk to her, and explain it all, be honest.For what you said, I think you don't want to hurt her. So make sure to tell her that. but also, explain how crazy you are going cause of not being able to have sex.The best practice is to wait and be safe, but don't forget that you don't have to be all naked and get in her to have sex. You two could agree to explore each other, even with clothes on. That happened to me, and she is the one who iniciated it, i didn't say anythig. and we both loved it. And we still took long time before we actually went to bed together. The key here is to comunicate, be honest, and try to look for solutions that are good for both as a couple. Is hard, but little by little you will see the light at the end of the tunnel
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Sexual Frustration
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Shyguy.. I would not listen to the other men saying to give her an altamatum of either "put out or get out". Sounds like you really care for this girl and thats awesome! Keep the lines of communication open and let her know how you feel. She'll eventually come around. Like somoene previously said, this is something special for a woman to give herself to a man for the first time, and you should want it to be special as well. Just be romantic with her, and express how much you care/lover her. Thats the best thing you can do.
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if she's nervous about how you'd feel, tell her that you know she won't be very good at it at first, but practice makes perfect :wink: jk. Tell her that it'll be a good experience for both of you even if it's only one time.
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You have not really given us enough information. Have you and she discussed sex? What is her attitude? Do you have intentions to stay with her? If she intends to wait until her wedding night, that is an honor for her groom. Good for her. If she has a stunted attitude towards sex, I cannot see her attitude improving without some intervention, and your harping on her about it is not intervention of the helpfull kind. If you love her, then you need to understand her, not to be at peace with your erection, but truely understand her. If you cannot or will not try to, then you either need to accept her stance and enlist the aid of Rosy Palm and her sisters, or move on.
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The best and most useful advice I can give is this: masturbate a lot, and wait for her to be ready. Don't push her, but make advances in that area every couple times you are together, just to make it clear you're ready to go farther. Don't do it so often or so insistently that you pressure her into doing something she doesn't want to do. She will resent you for it in the end, so you'd just be shooting yourself in the foot.