Hey, me and my bf had sex for the first time the other night, it was great but we tried it again last night and it was hurting again... it wouldn't go in if you know what I mean. :/ anyways, I ended up getting really upset about it because I really want to be able to make love to him but I don't udnerstand how it worked the first time but not the second.Please help.
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First time
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Don' t worry about it. It just takes time for everything to adjust and relax. Even if I go a long time now without sex its diffcult the first time and I have had a child! The first time for me was the same. It hurts for a bit but it will pass. Be safe and just try try again... ;-) Best wishes....
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It could be that you're tensed and therefore not properly excited. Maybe you guys need a little more foreplay before sex so that you're well wet and lubricated. If you're wet enough it will reduce/eliminate any pain.
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Geeky_one is right.
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Relax, take time to "warm up" with foreplay, and use additional synthetic lubricant if need be. Put it on both the outside of your vagina as well as the penis.
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What are some ways to do foreplay properly?
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There is no "proper" way. It's anything that will make you (and her) hot and horney.
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readytogo's right - there are no 'proper' forms of foreplay.
Just muck around - kiss, stroke, lick, touch..you get the idea :wink: