Hi, i wasnt sure where to post this topic because its the total opposite to sexual addiction.For the past month..maybe a bit more, ive been experiencing a low sexual libido. I thought nothing of it until yesterday when my bf wanted to have sex with me and i found myself thinking "just get it over with"Now dont get me wrong, my boyfriend and i love eachother, i still find him attractive, and im under no pressure from him at all, and if i were to tell him my problem he would be 100% understanding and supportive, but i dont want to worry him.Its nothing to do with him that my sex drive is low, because i dont find myself sexually aroused by pornography, and find that i have lost interest in masturbation too. My sexual thoughts and fantasies seem to have diminished, which is quite a pain for me because ive always had a vivid sexual imagination.Its not that sex is boring, my bf and i try different things all the time, but i just prefer to get it over with and watch TV I'm only 17 years old, and i have been on b/c pills for about 18 months. I have heard that these pills can lower libido, but would it really take this long to have an effect?I dont want to come off my pills because ive never had a problem witht them, they cured my acne which boosted my confidence and i dont have to worry about pregnancy as much.I've also started college recently which has been quite stressful and im looking for a full time job because im not enjoying it...but would this be a factor? I dont feel depressed or anything...Please help, i feel too young to be experiencing this, and i always liked sex a lot.
lol yeserday also kinda had the same situatuion i really didnt have that urge to do nething really and my bf said its been like this for like 2 weeks alreadi like he wanted 2 ea me out and i said not today and he felt as if i was gettin tired of him but thats not it, he super nice great bf and cute but i dunno.I'd say just take time for yourself and dont be so stressed over work be more happy go out to eat wit ur bf then movies then go to ur or his place and things will lead.
The stress could well have something to do with it.