Best way to masterbate for girls

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masterbation is great and good for you touching yourself is awesome but i have to say that humping something with your panties pulled to the side is so sexy. especiallyi u have a special something in your wet heaven humping while entering is ultimate. i adore itps girlsd i also recommend getting eaten out.

he really wants to but im not sure how to finger me and stuff but i dont no how to say the rite thing i really want to but i dont want ot get carried awayi guess im just curious...wat should i do?!?

what i do is i rub my clit, fantasize and hump my pillow it feels so good! too good actually and i cant keep goin. does anybody have any tips? also when ever my brother comes in town he brings his jack russell and lets just say she and i have some down time, omg she licks my clit and it feels so good! i've also wrapped a hot dog in saran wrap and used that and it felt pretty good but not as good as rubbin the clit. maybe im just weird but clit stimualtion feels better than fingering.

Sorry, my internet shut down for a couple of days there.

Of course he really wants to - all guys do! But that dosent mean it is the right time for you. Take it from me, as an older woman, the decisions you make at your age you cant undo, and theres no way in hell he'll be happy to leave it at fingering or messing around in any other way. He wants to put something of his in you honey, and it's not his finger! If you let him have his way you could end up with a baby (as I did at 17) and it held me back big time in my life, I'm only graduating college now, at 30, for Gods sake!

I'm not saying there's anything wrong with masturbation, there isnt. In fact you should be getting to know your own body and 13 is about the age it is normal to start, cause you're well into puberty and you hormones are starting to rage. It works differently for every girl, so if what other people say dosent work for you just keep messing around and you'll get there in the end. Here's what works for me just in case this helps: I dont get started physically straight away cause an orgasm starts in the mind, not the body. You have to get yourself mentally turned on before your body will become aroused and be capable of responding. I just lie there for a couple of minutes thinking arousing thoughts (they're different for everyone - you'll know when you've found yours when your privates get all hot and throbbing without you having even touched them yet) and when that happens that's the time to get started. You will find a little twist of skin at the front of your vagina, just below your pubic bone (thats where your hair is), that twist of skin protects your clitiros (it has to, cause it's so sensitive) if you begin by massaging that gently and at the same time keep on thinking the thoughts that got you aroused in the first place, and you do that often enough, an orgasm will eventually follow.

There are a couple of important things to remember: sex is new and very exciting at your age, but it is not all there is to life. Go out with your friends as well as you boyfriend and have fun. You wont get your youth back, so make the most of it.

2: Until you learn to pleasure yourself when your alone there's no point trying to get into it with your boyfriend cause you'll be too tense and paranoid and filled with stress and anxieties. Some women spend years and years trying to orgasm, but that's all down to stress in my opinion. Stress and anxiety are the biggest passion killers.

Finally, the most important point: DONT let him pressure you into anything, make him wait till you truly feel ready, and if you do decide for yourself to have sex, MAKE SURE you use a condom and that he puts it on before he gets near you, there's no point putting it on half way through. Putting on a condom is easy with a little practice, you just slide it onto the top of his penis and roll it down. Make sure you dont put it on the wrong way round, a good idea is to practice on a banana by yourself beforehand.

I'm not advocating sex here, certainly not, I'm just telling you the condom stuff in case you decide to go for it anyway, which I hope you dont!

Take care.x

Hiya, you should read the advice I just posted (save me writing it all over again!) That's what's always worked for me. Most women come from clitoral stimulation and not from intercourse at all, so if you're using objects to put inside yourself, even though it feels good, you're actually missing your clitirous and less likely to come.Good luck!

well how old do you think that you have to be to do mutal masterbation with your boyfriend? cuz i was kinna thinking the same thing.

I cant talk for anyone else, but if I could go back and make my decisions all over again I'd leave it till at least sixteen. That probably sounds like forever if you're a couple of years younger than that, I know!

The thing is, a lot of girls find if they tell their boyfriend to wait or fuckoff the blokes will oftentimes fuckoff, and this scares the girls shitless, but it's a damn pity it does cause it just exposes young fellas for the horny fuckers they are - if they cant get it from their girlfriend they'll just go to whatever girl is willing. Surely that's not the sort of boyfriend a girl would want anyway??? But a lot of young women just dont think as highly of themselves as they ought to. I'm sure you've heard the expression 'girlpower' - well, to my mind girlpower means being in control, not giving your control away.

If mutual masturbation always stopped there I wouldnt regard it that big a deal, but the problem is it rarely ever does, and it's the girl whose left with all the issues to deal with, including babies.

Another thing to remember about teenaged boys and young men is this, and it's VERY IMPORTANT! The part of your vagina that gives you most plesure is your clitoris, which isnt stimulated during intercourse, but the part of his penis that is stimulated most is it's head, the cap-like shaped head of the penis (thats sort of like the male clitoris) so when he's having intercourse with you he's having all the stimulation he needs right where he needs it, it's his equivilant of a good clitoral massage, but your clitoris is positioned a couple of centimetres away from your vaginal opening, so you're missing out, but because he's having a fine old time he has no incentive to make sure you're pleasured, he's getting all he needs and is happy as Larry and generally couldnt give a shite about what you want or need.

I'm not saying all males are selfish people, but when it comes to sex young men are a combination of one part selfish and one part ignorant. They dont know exactly what you need one one hand, and cause they're getting all they need they dont really care. It's easy to get carried away for them when they're having the time of their lives! When they've orgasamed and your're ready for your turn (a bit of attention to your clitoris) they're finished and done and getting a wank out of them will be about as likely as George Bush copping himself on and realising he's a war-monger. So my advice to any woman would be to make sure she comes first - every time. Dont let him inside you till you've been pleasured, that'll give him some incentive to get the job done!

(you didnt say how old you are by the way, if you're not sixteen yet my advice would be not to let him inside you at all!)

no hes dosent want to have sex because he wants to keep his health and he doesnt want to get me or anyone else pregnet untill hes married

i wonder if it would hurt or if it would feel the same as me doin it i dont know but last time he asked me i was on my period so i had to tell him no :blush:

o well i guess it dont matter

thanks though

It wont hurt unless he's very rough, in which case you could just tell him to take it easy, so there's not too much to worry about there. It's almost guaranteed not to feel the same as you doing it, as he'll have a different technique. Hope that answers you question.

Sorry for the very long reply and the kind of preachy attitude, I just hate to think of young girls being in vulberable situations!

Take care.

That was supposed to read 'vulnerable' ha ha.

thanks

lol im 14 not 16, yet .

dont worrry about it i would just rather have shorter replays though because my mom doesnt no im on here so i would rather her not find out or shell flip.my mom doesnt even no we kiss oops...!and this is from an earlier post buti tried the water thing an it really works(im 13)13year old virgin duh

someone help me im 13 and i masterbate, but idk if im doing it rite......and how would i use an electric toothbrush????? Someone help!!!! i get horny A LOT!!!!!

im 13 tooand ive taken some advice from earlier posts and iv tried the water thing u no with the shower head and it really worksi hope that helps*~maggie~*

ok thanks!!!!!

how do you use the electric toothbrush?

If you read the rest of the thread it tells you lots of techniques. You use the electric toothbrush by turning it on and using it to stimulate your clit. Just move it around until it feels good, some people don't like direct contact to the clit and move it around. Just do what feels right. Have fun.

i used the electric toothbrush and it was amazing!!! i just bought mine today only $8, best $8 i ever spent!! i orgasmed twice in 30 min. the clit stimulation is intense, i highly recommend it to ppl who are used to masterbating and it is highly highly pleasurable!

just used the toothbrush again.. another double orgasm, yay!! :smile: i love this machine!!!