first off, age doesnt automatically mean maturity...just look how many people are in college and still immature asses...it depends on the person..some people are forced to mature faster based on their situation. but in general most arent. and for the record 14? Adult? HELLZ NO...people these days are so dumb...most 18 year olds arent even mature let alone a 14 year old who hasnt really done anything in life yet... I mean come on, her reason for giving him a bf is because "she owes him" not dissing the girl or anything but if you only do something pretty much because you owe someone, you shouldnt be doin it at all...something like this you have to do cuz you want to or some disney stuff like that..you never owe anyone anything sexual..and fyi, i just turned 20 and have done my share of mature and immature things so its not like i'm just talkin out my ass
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Giving BJ's
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I see this thread has gone to the "maturity thing" instead of the BJ question.
May and old fart wade in? I'm 52 and maturity, is only a state of mind and how you choose to use it determines your "maturity level", as judged by society. Age has nothing to do with it. Us older people just know more of life's ups and downs.
I own a small construction company and hire "young adults" during the summer, on a limited basis. {State Regs.}
Most are around the 15 to 18 year old range. Some are too stupid to read a tape measure and others will blow me away with their math skills and work ethic. I have always found the latter to be more mature, because of good schooling and parenting.
Do I feel that 14 year olds should be giving BJ's or any other kind of sex? Absolutely not! It will lead to more experimentation and maybe pregnancy. You do not owe him anything "sexually" for ANYTHING!
Think before you act. You have your whole life in front of you and what you do now will affect you for the rest of your life. Trust me, been there done that and now I'm paying for it. -
well stated, nwiguy
