Ok. So here's my dilemma. I'm feeling bold. Should I ask my ex out. cause I can't get over him its been 5 months. I hate to say this but I'm almost definite he'd say no, but I still have that 5% left inside me that I believe he still loves me and it won't leave. I know my esteem, ego, is at stake but then if he says no. I know forever that he has no interest and I should just move on. However I'm just too scared...hwo to ask him. We don't really talk...and its so weird. Cause I know it takes a lot of guts..but I want to get over him so badly. Should I do this or just let time heal my wounds?
Should I ask him out
Wow, our ex's have the same name (spelling too). Its been nearly a year since my ex and I dated and guess what... it's still hurts because I'm so in love with him. We had our ups and downs and I've just realized that no matter what happens, we just weren't meant to be. I think that you should just let time heal your wounds. Believe me it'll be very hard, but eventually you'll be able to hold your head up and say "I'm a better person because of all of this" To me this guy doesn't sound like he cares as much as you do (which I completely understand... been there, done that). Maybe he doesn, but I don't know the whole story (or your hearts for that matter). I'm just giving you my opionin. I think you should just give yourself a breather from him and just see what happens. When you start thinking about him, do something to take your mind off of him. Talk to friends, go out with them and hang out, do something with your family. It'll be hard, but believe me, it'll be worth it in the end.
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What is the point of breaking up with someone and getting back together with them? Why not just stay together?
And if they dunped you, Why would you go back to that person?
Don't ask him out. Show some respect for yourself and move on.
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i would say..dont ask him out if you arent entirly sure he will say yes, if you do, and he says no, it will crush the lil hope that you have left. wait a while longer, you will either get over him, find someone new, or he will drop some definate signs that he wants you back. 5 months isnt that long.
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I agree move on. It's your life. Why dwell on his?