I have been with my girlfriend for a little over a year. for the first six months of our relationship it was very physical and we would fool around 3-4 times a week as the relationship progressed the less we would do anythhing. currently we fool around around once every two weeks and when we do its really hard for her to get into it. i know that i love her more and more as our relationship progresses and i know its the same with her. of course i would never end the relationshipover this i just am in a state of perpetual horniness. i was wonderingif this is normal.
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Is this normal
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Males reach their sexual peak faster and sooner than girls. I belive sexual peak for guys are late teens/early 20s. It is unhealthy in my opinion to have a primarily sexual relationship. Unhealthy in the terms of a relationship. If you seem pushy (i'm not saying you are) but that can often lead her to not wanting any. Keep in mind that things change and to adapt to them takes time. It is possible that sex got old to her. Try taking a break from it. But do not ignore her or her needs. Then plan out a really romantic night. Eventually over time invite new ideas or things into the relationship... try oils, toys, different techniques, dif places, play out fantasies... etc...
hope this helps you out.
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It's usual in a marriage to get less physical as you get older, but this seems too soon. There has to be a reason, and you need to talk to her to find out what it is.
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be careful in your realtionship. ask yourself, are you with that person for the physical feeling, or do you crave being by her for the emotional high you get. if you didnt answer the second option, mabey you should reconcider