Seeing the EX

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Especially when the recieving party's already contemplating suicide. :frowning:

I like to call it temporary insanity. No one is worth killing yourself over.

yeah no offense but sucide is pretty damn stupid... Everyone has ups and downs in life, it all depends on your attituted you take toward the suffering

You attitude towards the suffering is pretty negative. Not every one can just "get over it." If you can, yay for you, but not everyone's the same...

I wasn't suicidal over that, I'm not that pathetic. However, I do have bouts of depression when I think (think, not act upon) about dying. Actually, I don't (and rarely do) know why I feel this way, I can't explain it. It's in my nature. Do I enjoy it? Of course not, who would? I can't help it. The more "help" I get, the more fucked up I get. But enough about me. I agree completely with Sexpert about how some people can't get over some things. You can't make someone get over something. You can try but it rarely works.

all i was saying was, your attitued towards suffering effects the outcome...for example, my grandpa died, i was sad for about a week, bu then i realized i shouldn't be sad that he died, i should be happy that i knew him and enjoyed the time with him... just a simple change in attitude...

I think of it as change of perspective which then results in change of attitude.

I don't know about the rest of you but it's hard for me to change my attitude about something simply because my mood fluctuates so much.

I think a lot of people are like that. Especially females.

I agree.