We're not talking about a discussion with your mom or brother. We're talking about someone who claims to have good communication with a boyfriend ("i feel so open with him about everything"), but can't discuss with him the fact that she won't perform a sexual act with him because she's afraid she doesn't know how.Then she talked about practicing with a "lad friend". At that point I started wondering about the legitimacy of the post.On the Internet, nobody knows you're a dog