Okay, so my girlfriend of about two months told me that her last boyfriend fingered her and she gave him a handjob. That doesn't bother me at all, since it was before I even knew her and I find it nice that she can be so open with me.But anyway, I was wondering if you would consider a girl who has been fingered a virgin still? Is it more of a psyche thing or would full on intercourse be the defining part of virginity or not?
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Would you consider this a virgin?
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I believe you're a virgin until a penis has entered your vagina.
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You lose your virginity when you have sexual intercourse, when the penis is inserted into the vagina or anus. All else is just fun!!!
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She's still a virgin
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I would say yes, a virgin. There does seem to be the occasional debate here about semantics regarding virginity and purity and all that nonsense
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wholly crap, that was my 1000th post
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She is. Virginity can only be taken by sex in my opinion.
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I agree, in m/o you're a virgin until you have sexual intercourse (i.e. inserting a penis into the vagina). At least that's what I believe.
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For What It's Worth, dictionary.com defines a virgin as "A person who has not experienced sexual intercourse."
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So can you still be a virgin if you've been fucked in the ass?
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I already answered that!!!
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In some coutries, where it's expected for a woman to remain a virgin until marriage, people still have premarital sex (although not by Bill Clinton's definition), but they don't have intercourse, so the hymen remains intact (although the hymen can be torn by accidents, physical activity, tampons, etc.).It's like building a car, but not calling it a car because you left off the hubcaps. It's a meaningless artifice that has cultural or religious importance to some people. I'm not sure that it has a hard-and-fast definition.But a vestal virgin is: one of the priestesses who tended the sacred fire in the temple of Vesta in ancient Rome and remained celibate during their servitude.
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I'm assuming being fucked in the ass is the... losing virginity... requirement... for gay guys... but there are gay guys who don't enjoy anal sex, and never will have anal sex. Do you consider them to be virgins?
