Longer lasting????

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my bf and i have been sexually active for a while now. but he wants to last longer. it takes me longer to orgasam than it takes him. what can we do?

This isnt really for this section but o well. Well no duh it takes u longer, it prolly takes u ALOT longer....your a woman, its a fact here. But your bf should try tecniques to last longer, theres a bunch of em. But i dont know of ne possible way for u to be done quicker, i think if that were possible every broad would be doin it. at least u can get off, my last gf would never get off n she insisted thats just how she is. some people have that problem, so thank ur lucky stars u can even get there

I last far longer than my gf, she can have 3 in the time I have 1.

Your girl sounds like a bonobo. But how does that help the original poster?There are ways your b.f. can train himself to last longer, but make sure you're not shortchanging yourself in the foreplay department. Many women can't even have an orgasm throgh intercourse alone...make sure you at least have a good head start.(heroin versus heroine...got it)

What a bonobo? Anyway I think you should get him off twice before you have sex. By then he will not longer be as aroused.

In reply to:What a bonobo?It would be a lot funnier if you looked it up yourself.

An ape, but what does it mean in slang?

It doesn't mean anything in slang. Bonobos have sex all the time, all over the place, with everyone in their gang. They make love, not war. Sex keeps their society together. No one fights (unlike chimpanzees, who are very violent).Bonobos just love sex.

Yes she does! Sounds cool to me!

I wish I were a bonobo.

Given the anonymity of the Internet, any one of us could be a bonobo.

If I am, I'm not doing a good enough job of it.

lol bonobo.

trust me he does not short change me in the foreplay department. he is TOO good at it. i say too good cuz i get so into it that well you know. lol i would like it to last longer.

but i think we can work on him lasting longer but we need specific info. so if you got something please post.

LOL, way to bring it back on track.What usually works for me is the foreplay. Use of hands and oral sex, that gets me really close before he penetrates, then we can usually cum closer together if not at the same time..Also I have heard cock rings will keep an erection up longer. Might be worth a try. Also they make creams that make the penis a little less sensitive, so that the guy doesn't cum as quickly, it is temperary, not gonna hurt him at all.

thanks you have really helped me out.