I just started sleeping with someone (my first), and although the sex and everything else is good, I can never get off. It's not a huge deal to me- he tries to a fair extent and asks me what he can do. I'm just too shy to be totally blunt and show or tell him exactly what I like. I would just like to try new things out, and hopefully with experience, learn to know what I REALLY like.
I have no problem getting off on my own, without him around.
Should I stress out about this?