Am i virgin

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Well, in my sex education we learnt absolutely nothing about the hymen and all that stuff, just physically how it happens and the sperm - egg bit, thats it. Everything I know I learnt by myself, and this site has been a great help!

What do you mean .. whatever?

Then why did you say it?

The reason I ask is becasue it implied that you thought Mrs. Montague's perception of the situation the girl is in was full of shit.

Dude, chill out. Even if the original poster might live in, say, England, she still may be of a culture that makes it very difficult for a woman not to have an intact hymen before marriage.There are a lot of people living in the U.S. who seem very Americanized, but still have arranged marriages. Some traditions don't die easily.

i think she is asking why it hurts when she puts her finger (or fingers) up her self.

Oh thats easy to answer! Well it hurts because you have nerves. Your body is not use to the uhh accomodation of a phallic like item. Because you're a virgin and never had anything in you its very tight. So when you push it in...it usually kinda feels stretched. However with lots of juice you can make it easier and a lot more pleasurable. Oh yea and its not like once you have had sex you'ee loose. Your vagina would go back to its normal size? but it can accomadate much more now. Except children are another thing

While I'm not sure what the deal is with this girl, I think what could be happening here is that she is part of a religion or culture where she will be frowned upon if she looses her virginity before marriage. And of course the way they check is the hymen. If she is from a different culture that would explain ehr bad english and grammar... either that or shes too young to type well. And yes there are cultures where women who loose their virginity before marriage can be exiled, or, even killed. I can't give you any exact culture names but i know they exist. Just a thought though. Probably not really whats going on.

Well then why would she finger herself if she knew that would happen...

Alright, I'll explain as best I can, in as simple terms as I can. If you have anymore questions, feel free to ask.Are you a virgin? Yes, in the western sense of the word. However, depending on what culture you're from, breaking your hymen could be considered losing your virginty. What country do you live in, by the way?As for your question about how far in you can put your finger, you can put it in as far as you want without losing your virginity. However, depending on how far you put it in, you may have broken your hymen. As others have said, the only way to lose your virginity, again, in the western sense of the term, is to actually have penetrative intercourse.I hope that helped, but it's all been more or less stated by others in this thread.

What is she trying to say is :

She is worried if her hymen is still intact or not.
She hasn't asked u all about the importance of the hymen guyz so why all the fuss. The hymen might be of some importance in her culture thats it.
Anyhow , i she wants to keep masturbating as long as she doezn't break her hymen. So, in other words, she wants to know the safe distance and how deep can she insert her finger without breaking the hymen.
Hope u can answer her question

this was a dead thread

Are you still a virgin if you had sucked another guy and they had sucked you?

There's only one thing that can penetrate your... well you know, that will offically cause you to lose your virginity. gtg

So a guy can loose his virginity to another guy? How?

How about anal sex? Are you saying that people who've been gay their whole lives are virgins?

Damn I'm still a virgin....now i need to do anal sex.

What's wrong with being a virgin?

Nothin' it's just that I thought i wasn't and now i found out i am.

ur a virgin as long as a guy hasnt stuck his wee wee in ur cochie...lol....well like i was saying your a virgin usless youve had sex with someone. your hymen proves nothing because it can b broken by anything. mine got broken a long time ago. i cant even remember how long ago.(and im not even 16 yet :grin:) i can understand about being worried because of parents and all. because some people just dont understand that the hymen means nothing. but dont sweat itm your a virgin until that time comes