To Fast!!! Need suggestions!

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Ok so a little over 2 weeks ago i met this girl in my class. We've been dating, u know i see her twice a week for a 4 hour span at school, thne we've been out a couple times outside of that. Well we both like eachother alot, and we both want to take it slow. Ok now what do u guys consider slow. You see We've already kissed (peck on the lips), but that is after we went out twice. I know thats fine, but now i get into making out. Do u think on a 3rd Official date it would be ok and not movin fast? now remember i see her in school and we talk every single day just because we both are talkers. Also as far as actually bein boyfriend and girlfriend, i mean we practically are already but as for me making it official, do u think it would be to soon at a lil over 2 weeks. I want this relationship to last a long time im sick of jumpin from girl to girl. Please help, o and we're both 20 if that changes nething

On my first date my gf and I did everything but sex, we waited for the third date for that. I am sooooo bad at taking things slow!

lol bob!!! damn! I didnt kiss my bf properly until about the 4th time we went out, waited a few months before we had sex :blush:

I think that it should be natural how things happen, make sure you are ready for it, don't pace yourself too much, just let things fall into place :grin:

Well fortunately for me i found a girl that likes to make the first move so ill let her decide. i just wanted an idea of what you all think is fast. But i guess ill just play it out and see what happens.....i prolly shouldnt analyze so mcuh

wow a whole third date eh bob LOL hugs

Ok so get this shit. We went out again last night and it was very very interesting. It started out by goin to dinner, after waiting an hour and a half to get seated we ended up fighting at the dinner table! lol. you see she went to have a ciggarette and was gone 20 fuckin minutes so i got pissed because she was talkin to some lady the whole time. So then we start to fight, but it gets better lol. We get over it and get back to my house. So we pop in the Chappelles show DVD.....ah so romantic.....and start makin out lol. So we're goin at it and all that good stuff. Then she got mad because wen i was on top i wasnt thrusting or anything, now reminder we were just makin out. You see i didnt wanna push my luck with her so i wasnt gonna do nething unless she said it was ok. Ah geez the drama. But neways now shes all picky because she knows what she wants, i have to kiss this way, do this do that. O and now shes got me all worried about eatin her out because she knows how she likes it so IM FUCKED. Ah geez i need help here

well to be honest i wouldn't want to be with a guy like that if the roles were reversed hon, theres taking control of a situation and knowing what you like, but jeez! I would definitley have to tell him to back off and fucking relax and if he didn't, well he would be history!

Wait im confused what ur reffering to angel

Just replace the "he" with "she" and the "me" and "I" with "you".Basically she is saying that if she were you, she wouldn't be taking much of that shit! And she's right, there's taking control, thats ok but what she is doing is just selfish. In reply to: wow a whole third date eh bob LOL hugs Actually, no. She came to my place at 11 in the morning and we spent the entire day in bed together. A bit of sex, but mostly just talking, sleeping and being with each other.

Thanks for clearing that up for aTa and me lolOh and hon i was just having fun with ya about the 3rd date thing, you know i was

Ok thanx bob i was confused. i was thinking that either angel though i was gay, or she was talking in her perspective about what i said. Yea but i got it now lol. Ill keep ya'll posted on what happens cuz im sure ill need much more advice lol

I am often cofused, and was confused by what you said, then what i said, and what bob said there for a while - but bob sorted us out, bless him, and you thought i thought you were gay - never hug

***MINISTRY OF POLITICAL CORRECTNESS REPORT***There is nothing wrong with being gay.

Yes i know angel i got it now, i just thought it was amusing

Hello............ bob.............. this is me posting here, you seriously think i have a problem with people being gay???? come on you know me better than that!aTa - big hugs