Boner control

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Just about all teenage guys in puberty get spontaneous boners like you do. Its completely normal, and they're mostly caused by the rapid increase of testosterone in your system, and your brain isn't used to it yet, and uncontrolled erections happen. Unfortunately, there's nothing you can do to prevent them, so the best policy is to try to hide them as best you can. Wear baggy clothes for example. When I started getting spontaneous boners at about 14, all I wore were baggy sweatshirts during school, for most of my high school years, to help hide my constant erections. :blush:

Don't worry, they will start to happen less often, and you will eventually gain full control (or mostly) of your erections as you get older and finish puberty near your late teens. But you will have several years of these spontaneous erections to get through first.

In reply to:Don't worry, they will start to happen less often, and you will eventually gain full control (or mostly) of your erections as you get older and finish puberty near your late teens. wut age would a late teen be?

im 15 and i am also around 6-7 inches and had this problem as well but not very often tho, it used to be alot worse when i was 14. It should go slow down after awhile.

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wut age would a late teen be?

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It depends on when you started puberty and how quickly you develop in puberty, which is different for every guy.

With me for example, although I started puberty pretty much on time at 12, almost 13, development was slow for me until I got to late 14, and 15. Between age 14-16 is when I was getting many many spontaneous erections everyday. This also coincided with the period of my most rapid growth in puberty. Near late 16, and almost 17, I noticed the frequency of those spontaneous erections going down - they still happened several times a day, but not nearly as often. By the time I was 18-19, I rarely got spontaneous erections anymore, except for morning wood, which happened every morning, and still happens. :smile:

But that was me - you may be different. You may notice spontaneous erections stop sooner for you, or later. Chances are if your peak age of puberty (when you grew the fastest) was earlier than mine, then your spontaneous erections will stop earlier than mine did, and vice-versa.

Hey I understand your boner problem. They will slow down as you get older. When I was 14 I had alot of boners. I still get them at awkward times at school and it embarrassing. I wear boxer breifs and they have helped,maybe my boner isn't as big as yours. My best freind wears jockey shorts under his boxers. Yeah two types of underwear,but it works for him. My cousin wears sport briefs that really hide his boners. When I feel boners coming on I just think of ugly gross things. Try not to think about your boner or make it flex so that it pulsates. I know it might be difficult cause it feels good but don't do it. with alittle practice I have been able to control my spontaneous boners. I know it's embarrassing,but atleast your dick works and you don't need viagra. Hoped I helped alittle

Thanks a lot everyone. This really helped, and you have all been great.--carguy

YOu might try jacking off in the morning, it usually helps me.

Good point here.

I remember having the same problem at that age. The only thing that helped was jerking off before going to school.

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I've found that I'm able to somewhat control my erectile state if I want to through a meditative breathing sort of thing. It's more visualisation and letting go than anything else.What I do is breathe easily from my stomach area, close my eyses, and with every breath out, I imagine my penis deflating and going down. I don't tense up in any way. With every breath out, I imagine a gentle force moving it down. and in about 30 seconds, it's down by an appreciable amount.

I'm so glad I'm not a guy lol I'd hate to have to deal with boner issues!