Okay, this is my first time to ever use this website and i have a kind of embarrassing question. I have been going out with this guy and I believe I am ready for sex. Well, we were going to have sex the other night and I couldn't do it. I mean, i wanted to, but it hurt so bad, I couldn't get his penis in far at all. It was really embarrassing and I was wondering if anyone knows how i can help get over that. Also, I've never been able to use tampons for the same reason, it hurts too badly to put them in. Please help me if you can. Thanks.
Can someone help me with this problem?
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You really have to relax and be calm for everything to go smoothly, make sure there is alot of foreplay also, remember do not force yourself to be ready. Be ready when you are ready
Welcome to the boards, and please don't be embarrassed asking questions on here, thats what this forum is here for.........You have to be totally relaxed or the inside of your vagina will be tight, and its kinda something you can't do anything about........Use extra lubrication, so things are really slippy, and take it slow.
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But don't make it too slippy, there is no point in getting it in far if you can't even feel it!
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