I have a rather strange problem...A girl has never been able to "let me finish" I also haven't gone all the way, but it's frustrating when my girlfriend has 9-10 orgasms (apparently i'm good :P) and i don't have one.It's not that she doesn't turn me on, or that she doesn't give a good handjob, it just doesn't happenIt's always taken me me a LONG time to get off, maybe thats just it? (like 15 minutes constant)or maybe it's something on her end? any advice on making this better? it's frustrating to no end.Thanks in advance. Oh, and sorry for wording this badly, it's kind of embarrasing
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"getting off"
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I don't understand. Are you saying it takes you 15 minutes to "get off"/orgasm?
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hey, same here man
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It might be that you are used to the feeling of masturbation, and need time to get used to the different feeling of vaginal sex. Or perhaps there is some psychological block?
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Sorry i'm dancing around what i'm trying to ask, for some reason i'm embarrassed even over the internet... deep breatheHere goes...It takes me 15-20 minutes to masterbate/OrgasmI Am now with a girl who i really like, and she can't get me to orgasm, even though i am able to get her to orgasm 8-9 times, which frustrates both of us... Me mostlyI'm asking A. If this is normal, and B. advice on making it easierAnd sorry for my first post, this is really weird for me. EDIT: "It might be that you are used to the feeling of masturbation, and need time to get used to the different feeling of vaginal sex. Or perhaps there is some psychological block? "I haven't had sex with her yet, but you could be right on the psychological block...
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I find it normal, cause i went through it... Try goin' deeper... like.. clothes sex... or ON and OFF which is one has mostly/all clothes off and the other plays.. ( i was the ON she was the OFF) and i orged. 4 times in 30 mins ( no lie!) .. it also may take a bit to get use to some things and settle down with her