What about older girls and younger guys?

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I've met very few women that were actually with a younger guy, although I know some that have admitted to being turned on by certain ones. Unlike men, most women seem to want a guy around their own age or older. And as a younger guy (years ago) that was really into older women, it used to really "suck." I see now that it couldn't have worked though!Not sure what to make of the Mary K. Lourneau marriage. I would have thought "he" would have moved on after all these years. "He's too young to actually be in love with her and its just a silly little crush," I thought. They're still together though, but I guess only time will tell.

Now that so many women are financially independent, one of the main reasons to go for an older guy is gone. A lot of women (like Demi Moore) are happily in relationships with younger guys (I mean like someone in their 40's dating someone in their 20's, not adult women dating children).

I asked this once and got a barrage of insults from morons.

I recently got "involved" with a younger guy. I'm 18 he's 15. This guy is probably the most amazing guy I have ever met. It really hurt because my best friend wasn't being very supportive...calling me a cradle robber, child molester, pedophile...and all that. Just because a guy is younger then you doesn't mean he's any less mature...but then again...i'm probably just one of the lucky ones who found one of the very few amazing guys left out there...whether he be older or younger then me...he's nothing short of amazing.

Yeah but you're both young. It's likely just puppy love. Also, I'm wondering if law enforcement were to find out, what would they do? You could be charged with statuatory rape.

If they're having sexual releations. Where they'll usually get you, though, is not for having sex itself, but for contributing to the delinquincy of a minor (giving him alcohol, staying out late so that his schoolwork is neglected, etc.).

My sister in law got charged for that exact same thing recently. Hopefully, her ass will land in jail.My brother's in jail for letting a 14 year old girl into his apt he shares with his g/f. Probation violation. I have dumb family members so I'm just offering some words of caution.

So what about those people who are just dating but there is nothing sexual going on and the older person insnt contributing to the delinquincy as you put it? What kind of criminal charges can be laid against those type of people?

I dated a 17 yr old when i was 14...not that uncommon

are you a girl or guy? It seems like girls date older guys more often than the other way around.

wrong. every girl i know is dating a younger guy. but it mostly depends on age. like say they're still in their teens then yes they'll like to date older guys. but at a certain age some women find it attractive to date younger guys. and same with men i guess. but as for me i love to date the ones that are a bit older then me :grin:

I always went for the older mature guys. My boyfriend is 4 years older than me.

Interestingly enough, this question is obviously possed for a teen or someone in their early twenties. When I was that age, I dated and married a man 6 years older than me. We started dating when I was 17. Personally, I think I was too immature for the relationship. And as you can see, it didn't last.Now at 42 years old, I will not date men older than me. And please, any male over 40 reading this, please don't take offense. There is very slim pickings where I'm from. Most men older than me I find somewhat boring. That doesn't mean it's the same in other places. Since I've been single (for the last 3 years) I have not dated anyone older than 36. I'm 42. I enjoy being with younger men and they enjoy being with me.

wrong. every girl i know is dating a younger guy.Either you're in a strange place, or everything suddenly changed. Girls are usually more emotionally mature than boys their age, so they gravitate toward older guys. It always seems a bit odd when a girl is going out with a younger guy. You know an unusual group of girls.

lol nah i just know a lot of older women that are attracted to younger guys and well i like that, cuz i'm very attracted to older women. but not rediclously older. i'ld say something like um maybe.....6-8 yrs older is as high as i'ld go i think.

I would be a male..and i actually know a few younger guys that date older girlsand the other way around

some girls I know, prefer to have sex with younger guys. Not all but more then a handful of them. However not one of them that has discussed this with me would consider dating them.Of course we are talking about less then a dozen girls so its not a real accurate sample of opinion.We are talking about girls under 30 that prefer to have sex with guys around the age of 22 to 24 but date older men averaging 32 to 40.

i guess because im 18, i prefer going out with guys who are older, because guys younger than me or the same age are still so immature..but whatver happens, i have no rule really

my bf is older than me

I've always dated guys older than me. When I was 18 I was seeing a 36 year old. I tend to gravitate to men in their thirties and early 40's.