~*~Question for the guys~*~

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Is there anything else you think about besides sex? I mean not htat all of you are like that but everytime I speak to a guy it has to do with sex. Do you ever think that girls have feelings too. I am young and don't know better. But from what I have experienced guys cant live without. I know you are better than that...? I'm kinda worried and I wonder if I will ever find a guy who isn't just interested in the body of a girl.

grow up

she's kidding right? Is she that naiive? Of course we don't think of anything else besides sex. :P

she's fourteen, just saw that, and wants to go prom (she is a freshman im guessing, and only seniors or juinors can go to prom)... So i guess, since she's fresh out of middle school, she wouldnt know any better...i hope

hmm ya well ya know maybe if you looked threw the eyes of what i 14 year old girl like myself hears and sees and experiences you'd think different if you dont know what its liek dont say anything and dont judge

if your are a guy and you dont get looks that make you feel uncomfortable or when you walk in a store and boys have the nerve to say their gonna f*** your p**** in front of your 7 year old brother then please dont tell me im being naive because you have no idea

and sorry buddy but yes the type of school i go to we have proms in the 9th grade

My ass. where do you live, cause it isnt anywhere in the united states or canada, and i HIGHLY doubt that any guy any point in time said that and DONT double post, thats spamming. There is Such a a thing as a EDIT button, use it! And i was fourteen, 5 years ago, and i am a girl. and no that NEVER happened to me. With or without my brother around.

ok girl listen. i really didnt ask you for a comment back. and first of all how in the world of humanity would you know who said what to me. i live in new york something you must nothing about. i was born in new york city. where do you live ?? never neverland. you grow up. i acatually care about my brother and dont want him to grow up to be like that. and who do you think you are giving me this mess i didnt ask you to come up in my face like that. get your act together and come back to the real world. i have nothing against guys at all and all i asked was why do they always talk about sex because EVERY GUY IM AROUND DOES sos please be quiet if you have no idea what you're talking about

Im not taking this from some 14 year old snob, and yea i lived in new york city from when i was 15 then i moved so yea, i know about it there. and i know guys didnt act like that. i said nothing about if your brother should act like that cause its a disgusting way to act. and if a guy did that, it was a sick joke, to get a laugh. And in college where parties are every night, there is still no guys that act like that.

well you know i dont know what part of new york you lived in but things have changed. you cant just make a perdiction that something is what you think it is when you're not even there to witness it. you cant say what guys have said and done to me was all in my head. it wasn't you dont know what i go through on the way to school, walking home with my brother, or just getting something from the store i have had gangs on my block where i have been threatened to be raped i have seen my friends come to school the next day crying that they werent a virgin anymore because they were raped the day b4 you really dont know and i really dont feel like hearing from someone who thinks they know more than a 14 year old just because they're older, and remember God willing one day i will be your age and if some 14 year old comes to me with the same problem im not gonna push her to the side or look down at her because of a question that deals greatly with the safety of her life i will give her my absolute positive advice without makeing it seem like she is stupid or wrong

And then you go and argue that your dad wont let you wear the kind of cloths you want...hm... listen im not about to argue with a flippin fourteen year old ok? and i doubt much has changed in four years...

you dont know my dad so beeeeeee quiet i havent worn a skirt since i was like 9 i cant even where jeans that cling you dont know me or my dad. do you even know new york?? think not so

im going to bed. next time ill no not to come to someone who is sooo incredibly ignorant. i pray to God that He'll help people like you to help others and that you wont push them down or curse the way you do. i can already tell what kind of person you are, hopefully im wrong. sorry to have wasted your time. it certainly wont happen again unless you happen to want to critisize another problem i might have

I'm a teenage male and I dont really think about sex that much. Even when I was a virgin, that wasn't the only thing on my mind. Girls always liked me because they could hang out with me and talk, without me trying to get something. But, I do know my type are rare. Im the only one like this out of all my male friends. If guys are doing that, no wonder your dad wants you to wear sweats! From what I've read, your area isn't the best. My advice to you would be to keep covered up! Dont flaunt it at all if you want to stay safe! Dont make it stand out or anything. Just do good in school and get out of there. You may also want to take a female self-defense course this summer. If a private self-defense course isn't an option for you, I'm sure there is some sort of summer community program in self-defense in your area. Check with your school or a local YMCA or something. Keep safe out there!

In reply to:My ass.We had a 9th grade prom when I was in junior high school (9th grade was the senior year...there was no "freshman" year). Now it's a "middle school", and I don't if it's still grades 7 to 9. But in Florida we get married when we're 12.I also find the comments that JapanFan14 mentioned completely believable, especially in New York. You don't know what it's like these days...some kids are trying to live like a hip-hop song. That, mixed with the new flood of testosterone, can make for some pretty obnoxious boys.

I know what you're talking about. I've had the same sort of thing said to me, and it's not flattering. I don't know though, I mean in middle school and highschool, yea, that's all guys AND GIRLS think about. It's hormones mixed in with immaturity. There are some good guys out there who have had a good upbringing and can control their sexual impulses and will try to keep sex out of their minds when speaking to you, but overall, it's an unavoidable thing. Guys are programmed to think that way, it's just a matter of controlling it. Sex is everywhere, and I think society puts a lot of pressure on teenage boys and girls to act so sexual. It's great you care enough to want to keep your brother from these sort of behaviors. Somebody has to teach children the appropriate way to act, and hey, maybe these guys who were insulting you have shitty parents. They're to blame. So next time that happens, look the guys straight in the eyes and say "a real man knows how to respect a female, which apparently you're not capable of" or i dunno. haha. just stick up for yourself! they won't know what to say.

I have to agree with Steve. From what I read on here from 14-15 year old boys, it seems sex is all they think about. And they are not very respectful of girls.

I think about sex all the time, have done since I was a young child (I'm special that way). I was, however, brought up to have respect and dignity.
If someone were to say those things to you, he is a product of poor parenting.
Sure, guys have sex on the brain most of the time, but only those who can respect and (try to) understand women ever have it.

I love you!