For a few years, I have been masturbating with the hot tub jet. When I'm finished, my penis is usually a bit swollen, and there are some bumps at the base of the neck. Is something wrong, or am I okay?
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It sounds like it's pretty rough on your penis. What worries me is that this is the only way you can get off, which may give you problems reaching orgasm with sex. I think it would be a useful exercise to try other techniques so you have more variation.
Oh, believe me, I've thought about all of those things. And I've tried a lot of other ways, but I can't seem to get other ways to work.
If I were you, I'd be concerned as well. You've probably desensitized your penis. I'm sure it's not permanent though. I'd lay off of the hot tub jets for awhile. In a short bit of time, other less-forceful methods will probably work just fine.
How long do you think it will be until the sensitivity returns?
I've noticed your other posts. Let me see if I understand your situation completely:
(1) You've been masturbating a few years only (successfully) with hot tub jets.
(2) You mastubate about once every 1-2 weeks.
(3) You have an orgasm in about 1 minute.
First off, I find it hard to believe that any guy can go 1-2 weeks with getting off. Unless maybe your penis is sore from the jets? Or maybe your real young? (Don't know how old you are.)
In answer to your question about sensitivity returning, I'd guess maybe a few weeks... maybe more. But I really don't know. I'm not a doctor or anything.
Here's what I'd do if I were you: You're used to getting off fast and hard and it may take a while to change what you're used to. Quit using the hot tub jets for now. If you can't get off other ways right away, don't give up. If you're like almost every other guy out there, the sexual pressure will build up over time until it'll take very little stimulation to get you off.
I'd just use some lube (not soap or shampoo -- use lotion or hair conditioner) and lightly and slowly stroke with just your hand. (And maybe think about some hot girl you know.) Don't stress out about not getting off, don't worry about that. Just try and enjoy the feeling. If you don't get off, try again the next day. It'll cum eventually... and after that, it'll probably get easier and easier to have an orgasm this way (or some similar way).