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In your honest opinion, do you prefer length or thickness when it comes to your guy? Why?

Thickness, he could have a 4in length, but its the thickness that you feel

thickness, defintely.

Thickness

Well thickness is really important, but he cant have a chode or anything. Length is good too. Its hard to decide.

Length or thickness doesn't make a difference if he doesn't know how to use it...........I guess if I had to choose it would be thickness

Lenght or thickness? What about texture?

what is a chode?

area between the scrotum and the anus.

a chode is sumthin that is shorter than it is fat eg. penis that is 2 inch wide, but just 1 inch tall.

In this case, the word is being used to define a short fat penis not the perineum.http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=chode&r=f

But the ones you've seen, have they all been hard? If you've seen that many erect cocks, then you're pretty lucky!

At the gym is the only time I've ever seen any cocks (in person, not counting what I've seen in porn) and some guys are so small! It's like maybe an inch long! I don't know if they get really long once they're hard, but seems tough to think they'd be more than 3 or 4 inches.

whats a good size in thickness that women like?

You guys hang out naked only when you're having sex? Or are you having sex 100% of the time when you're together?

well I'm 14 with 6" in Length and 1.5" in Diameter how's that?

Well I really appreciate the honesty in the answers, although they ultimately make me uncomfortable. Not sure where "enough" thickness starts and stop, but I'm starting to think even more guys lack thickness than length. I see a new anxiety happening. Luckily we all have tongues and fingers, which I suspect are all relatively the same size.

I think most of us were just trying to say that if we were to have a choice between two extra-endowed penises we'd rather have an average length that's a little thicker than an average width that's a little longer. For me personally I have that preference because I don't enjoy things pressing against my cervix, but I do enjoy vulva-scrotum togetherness. The extra thickness I could take or leave. The thing to remember is that vaginas come in all shapes and sizes to the same extent that penises do and women's personal preferences will vary accordingly!

I think you explained that beautifully. Hopefully guys will read and "understand" everything thing you really said. Sometimes I think there can be a big difference between what is actually said, as opposed to what guys actually hear when it comes to such a sensitive matter. Fact is, I think truly open and honest discussions about anything sexual is always needed. I don't think lying or exaggerating does anyone any good in the long run. I don't think there is anything wrong with someone having a preference, I think everyone, including us guys, have some kind of preference somewhere. I know guys who prefer to only date thin women or voluptuous women. I don't find that "most" people preferences are written-in-stone though. If 2 people really like each other, I find that all that other stuff will tend to matter less. I wasn't uncomfortable with what you guys were saying, in fact, I really appreciate your willingness to be honest. This is a good thing! I just worry that guys will take-it-wrong or put-too-much-into what you are saying. I just hope they are hearing what you are saying, and not freakin' out. There is no need to guys!

so women prefer thickness over length.. so what would fill the average woman up? my girth is 5inch.

is there a point where it gets "too thick"my penis is 6.5" around and i think I might be still growing