When cleaning, I know I'm supposed to retract back the foreskin to clean, but, how far is it supposed to go? Just like behind the head like with normal retraction? Sorry im kind of new to things. Im 18 and I just learned the the foreskin is supposed to retract. Never knew that but, i'm doing stretches when i found this site a few months ago. I still have that fear of retracting for some reason.
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Cleaning
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It should go at a minimum of just behind the head. Take a look at the Male Anatomy thread above.
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Well, I'm kinda like you. It wasn't until my later teen years that I learned that the foreskin had to retract for normal sex and cleaning. I know it can be weird and scary at first, we don't wanna hurt ourselves there now, do we?But seriously, once the foreskin has retract under the corona, it's not really supposed to go much further, since that's where the interior of the foreskin is attached to the shaft. Once you've retracted it like that, you can clean under the corona which is where the smegma is secreted. Just be careful and slowly get used to retracting it fully. It won't be long that you won't even think about it while washing there.
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How far? far enough that ur comfortable is the right answer but try to go farther each day. normal retraction is as far as the skin will go yea
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Ideally you should be able to get it far enough back that you can wash not only the head but the whole inner lining of the foresking which is what produces the smegma.
Also, did you know when you're young and uncut the foreskin is stuck to the rim of the dickhead. When a uncut guy (who doesn't have a tight foreskin) starts masturbating or having sex it tears away and reveals the rim. -
omg i have had the WORST expreience about this..basically i didnt know you can retract your foreskin that far..and i was with my girl and she dicided she wanted to give me oral..basically she has done it before..because she pulled it all the waayyy back and there was a LOT of build up of smegma..and she looks at me like wtf is that..and im just like "omg"...i cant beleive this happend to me..and this was like 3 days ago..soo basically i washed it off and she then gave me oral but for some reason i couldnt get erect or get a good feeling...it felt as if my head was too sensitive... so it felt good but not to get me erect enough..and yea im 18!..it sucks but like others have said im soo happy i found this site!!also like behind my head there seems to be some kind of small 'bumps'..im guessin from the years of smegma build up..can someone tell me what this is?thanks i hope to hear some educative replies.
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Take a look at the pictures in the Male Anatimy thread above. It might be PPP.
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Wow. that's pretty embarassing but you know that girl really likes you if she still wanted to do it after that nasty surprise. Next time you know to wash it all out good before anything happens and that will make you relax and enjoy it more.What I used to do when I was studying in my room I would sometimes hold my foreskin all the way back and let the air get at the head. Your supposed to have the skin back when you have an erection that's why your too sensitive.
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yea its much easier and i feel SO much cleaner since then...but like when she decided to give me oral it felt too sensitive..it felt good but not like a pleasurable feeling too get me erect..then i got nervous and im like wondering to myself y im not getting erect..but will the feeling get better?or was she not just hitting the "g-spot' to get me there?
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Well, if you had never stimulated the glan directly before, it is bound to be hypersensitive. When I first started masturbating with the foreskin retracted (after I discovered lube), the feeling after just a few strokes was halfway between pleasure and pain. Actually reaching orgasm was very difficult because the pain would continuously stop me from stimulating the head enough to climax. It took a lot of practice before the head got used to direct rubbing.Also, there is the psychological aspect to consider. You probably felt really bad, even ashamed, taht a girl who was about to suck your penis found it so dirty. And being afraid and panicking because you feel unable to have an erection usually only makes things worse. If that is the cause, then there's really no magical solution, just trying to feel confident and try not to take things too seriously during sex. The desire to perform at all cost and the fear of disappointing the partner are the two worse offenders in not being able to become erect or having an orgasm.
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wow...well thanks a lot for the information and i appreciate all the help ya have showned.