Anal Sex

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well first of all you should make him use a condom even if neither of you have an STD he could still get infected, also dont let him stick ANYTHING of his or anything else thats been in your bum into your vagina, that can infect you until its been very thoroughly washed and disinfected, as for the pain he may just be to big just yet if you want to continue start small and work your way up maybe just a finger than 2 than so on and so forth until you get to the size of his dick maybe even a little bigger than if it still hurts alot than just dont do it (now for the age thing,ok im not going to tell you your an evil little slut whos to young to be having sex because frankly yes that is your choice but i will ask you to ALWAYS use a condom though you may already know that and actually research all the risks involved before engaging in any kind of sexual act and if you change partners make sure to get both of you tested first and i think thats all i have to say

wow. um sex at 13? 13 years old. wow this is crazy man. It's girls like that that make me so proud to be the way I am. I know thats rude but omg 13. At 13 I was hanging at the movies with my friends, fighting with both my teachers and classmates, teasing boys at the beach, and having the best time of my life. But sex at thirteen, well good for you girl. Me on the other hand prefer to enjoy myself as a person not worrying about aids, pregnancy, or stuff like that.

To answer your question though. If it hurts let him know. Don't go through the pain girl, though it is supposed to hurt at first. It's very sensitive. If he gets upset than maybe you shouldn't be doing it with him. Stay safe babe.

First of all, I can't believe what some of you people have said. I'm sorry but the "it may not be right, but it's her life/decision" argument is rendered useless because of the fact she's THIRTEEN F*CKING YEARS OLD. Honey, you are a child. I myself am just barely not a child being 18...so do you think you can really make such adult decisons, like engaging in anal sex by yourself? That is insane! I'm guessing you're in the eigth grade; in four years you're going to be a completely different person. You probably won't even recognize yourself as being the way you are now. So why don't you wait? Wait a few years until you're obviously a helluva lot more mature and stable. You shouldn't be having sex with a boy because you're "in love". Believe me, you're not in love. And if this creep who is taking advantage of your naivety is older, like A LOT older, report this to the police. He could go to jail and SHOULD because you're still a young lady who's growing up and doesn't know her own mind yet.

She deserves to have her question answered.

1. If it hurts, he's doing it wrong.
2. Don't let him do anything to you that he won't let you do to him. If he won't let you put a sex toy up his butt, then don't let him.
3. He has to let you let him ease in. There's nothing better to teach him how to do it right than letting you do it to him. That means practice. But since you're probably too young to get sex toys, your best bet is to wait until you're legal.
4. Once you're legal, get sex toys and practice on yourself. The truth is (sorry to say) that they're a lot more fun than guys. They get you off, and teenaged boys don't. Sorry, but they couldn't find their butt with their hands, let alone your clitoris.
5. If he isn't getting you off, stop having sex with him. You can do it yourself. What would be the point of doing anything else?

Pfft, I pwn any sex toy. If men were worse, why would married women WITH dildo's still engage in sex? My parents had sex toys, yet I'm here. Nice logic.

Good question.

Here's why: I question the logic of the many hundreds of thousands of women who engage in sex without having orgasms at all. Who fake orgasms. Who don't even have the sense to know they can have orgasms. WHo think you have to have intercourse to have an orgasm.

Sure, penetration is nice. But for most women, vaginal sex does not cause orgasm. I think it's more emotional than anything else.

Oh, and as far as men go? Don't freak out. Dildoes are not better than "all men." But they are, I am honestly telling you, better than boys. and I was talking to a thirteen year-old. Unless her "date" is 25 or so, and therefore a rapist, she can get much better results on her own. Without coersion, and without any laws being broken.

I was the same way at thirteen, sex was the last thing on my mind. I fear that kids that are having sex so young don't realize the responsibilites that come with having sex. Not just the physical act, but the emotinal issues that come with it as well. I look at our government here in Canada and I think we have a right to be concerned with young people having sex. We support them if they become young mom's. And I am not trying to be predjudice about the issue, I am sure some young mom's go on to do great things, but the vast majority become dependant on welfare to provide for them and their child(ren). It upsets me that sex education is not mandatory in the schools. Alot of young people have such mixed up views on sex and where I live it is more like a game for them. They can get a bracelet for their arms if they give a guy oral sex. They just think getting pregnant is the only side effect of having sex. If you are young and having sex just protect yourself, be responsible with your body. There is a lot of time to grow up and as you do you will see why sex is a big deal. And I hope that emotionally you are prepared if your boyfriend leaves you. It is a lot to handle at a young age. It is truly worth the wait, but since you chose not to you still have the power to be in charge of your body and let no one take advantage of it.

don't be someone who u r not... if it's something that other wanted to do and not u who wanted to do, better stop... because it dose affect ur sex life in the future...beside all that... my first anal sex felt weird too... my bf (now my fiance) and i talked about it and both wanted to try, so it was not like because either one of us was scared to try and to enjoy... 1st anal penetration usually is painful, especially when the guy had a huge cock...anyway, don't let anyone push u around... and do becareful about getting pregnant... u have a long way to go~~

Hey gymnast. Next time you do anal, you just need to take it slow. use lots of lube, and maybe even wear a condom. after you get used to it, you could even try double penetration by either having him fuck your ass, and you use a dildo in your pussy, or by having two guys do you at the same time. Either way anal sex will add to your pleasure.

Enjoy!

Hey, I'm a guy, and guesse what, I never want to have anal sex, reasons:Anal sex without a condom is the #1 way to get STD's through straight couples, and plus, logically, you'll get shit on your dick if you do it without a condom, no normal woman should enjoy anal sex, hello! It's your ass, which you use to take a shit, not to have anything inserted in there, and this is a guy who respects women talking here.

A lot of women enjoy anal sex. Now that you know the answer, you can work backwards and make a more sensible statement.

Okay, now how the hell would you know that women enjoy anal sex?

Don't womem talk where you're from? They say so that they do and they write that they do. I'm not saying that every woman does, but I dated a woman who wanted to, and was disappointed when I was not interested. She brought it up, not me.

In Canada we have a saying, only two women enjoy anal sex: A Pornstar and a Shemale.

Ignorance abounds.

Screw you bitch.

I guess that's something Canadians are wrong about. You want a list of names?

Are you for real? You know nothing about women.

Yes, I am flesh and blood imbecile, just all the girls I've had sex with were strongly apposed to anal, and also I again repeat myself, women use their ass for taking a shit, why the fuck would I want to screw them in there?