Anal Sex

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Hi im 13yrs old and have a bf, i have a bf i love very much and we have had sex and done most of the other things, hj, bj, fingerd, sucking licking etc, but recently he wanted anal sex so i agreed to but got him to put little ky jelly on my bum hole and his dick, then he started to push in me, this was very pain full tbh i didnt like it but didnt let him know, just put my head in my hands and let him enjoy it although i wasnt, but my question is as he was fucking me and it being pain full i still cum, so does that mean i like the pain or am i just a wierd bitch....!

Please don't call yourself a bitch, Girl_Gymnast. I wouldn't.

You're only 13, why do you feel the need to be having sex? Are you ready for the all the consequences that come along with it?

More importantly, do you even know all the consequences that come with having sex? Anal sex is pretty much one of the riskiest things you can do, both STD contraction wise and risk of personal injury wise. You should never ever force yourself to continue through anal penetration if you're feeling pain, you can do some serious damage that way! The tissue back there is very very delicate and although you were smart to use lubrication it was still very silly to just jump right into it. Anal sex wasn't exactly the first thing nature had in mind for us so it's very important to work up to it slowly and be careful! If you have any reason to doubt that your boyfriend wouldn't be 100% understanding that you need to slow down when you're in pain then you really shouldn't be doing these things with him, especially at such a young age.

As for your question, coming to orgasm even though it hurt is nothing to feel weird about, a lot of people are very very sensitive back there and pain doesn't always interrupt the pleasure circuits. It doesn't mean you're a freak or anything.

Its upto me what i do or not, there are other girls i know at my school that have sex so its not just me.

what happens when you get pregnant at 10? that's pretty sad

13.

13 sorry, still it's sad

girls like you .....make me sick

Of course, everybody's doing it so it's fine.

why, are you a 13 year old having sex as well?

I actually thing kballa was talking to Girl_Gymnast, not you Amanda.

I thought that too...trying to make a point that people should pay attention and respond to the actual poster they're talking to, not the one before them

Why everytime a guy or girl asks a question about sex and there 13 or w/e everyone always asks them the same thing. 'Why are you having sex this young', i know you guys are just trying to help them but thats there choice and there just asking a question, im not saying its right what there doing but just answer there questions

You said it yourself... people here are just trying to help. Someone who's 13 should not be having sex, so that's the advice they're given. Of course, they don't have to listen to this advice.

ya but she already has had sex and thats her choice. ya, she might be too young and u can give her advise to be carfull but u shouldnt jump down her throught and basicly hurt her feelings telling her she should of never had sex. she already has and its helpfull to tell her that theres responisbilitys with sex, but after she says she has already made her choice you shouldnt tell her shes wrong, thast not advise

Well... I wasn't one of the ones giving "advice" to her, but I still think that telling her "it's wrong" is "advice". Just because she's already having sex, doesn't mean she should continue to do so.

After looking at the OP's profile, I often wonder if posts like these are bare with me here, undercover cops trying to draw interest from pedophiles because some of it seems like made up stories to draw attention.Wow, first post in a few years, that was weird

kid im 16 year old guy,and im an abstinent virgin,let me just say this,you shouldnt have to have sex to make him happy,you shouldnt call your self a bitch in the first place,but if you might be,cause it seems like you dont have much judgement!you should really be careful!im not going to say anything else but theres alot more to sex than an orgasm,like pregnancy,and aids,and emotional problems if you break up and lots of other stuff

Notice..no one has answered her question... I could give you a general answer on that..but I'm sure most of these people know about it more than me. You have to relax the sphinctors..The outside one can be controlled, the inner sphinctor can NOT be controlled. It's involuntary. The only way to relax that muscle is by carefully relaxing everything else..including yourself. Thats probably the most important answer to your question..but there are a LOT of other things involved with it. I dont have time to type anymore..I'm getting tired. But..as everyone else says..about sex at that age...Yeah its your choice..and it's really not a good idea at all..just..be careful..