**Ive never met anyone who hasn't been interesting in some way..........Im sure you ARE interesting..........I have never cared what people think of me, and sometimes people find THAT interesting LOL
I think you need to have more confidence in yourself hon......people find a lack of confidence strange sometimes i guess, be yourself and quit worrying what people think of you :smile: **
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I Need Help
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I don't know where you live, but, at least in cities, there are adult education centers that have courses on assertiveness and interacting. The instructor coaches the students, and the students coach each other. There nothing to lose by looking into such classes.This is just a wild guess, but there may be some issue in the way you approach people that's off-putting, and you perceive the result as a personality defect. But it's hard to be objective about yourself, your perception may be completely off base, and it may be easier than you think to reprogram the way you interact. It probably will be difficult to do it on your own, though.
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I used to be like you and then I got an Idea. I decided to find someone who I might be able to make friends with and then I lisened to what he talked about. I reserched about that topic and then talked to him about it and now we are friends. (this is a lot easier to say then to do)
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think about the saying "u live as a kid once". no offense but u sound like u shut out ur social life, but its never to late to open up. go out into the and hav fun i guess