Well im sure a few of you are sick of my constant posting but i have tried to call the girl i like but she didnt pick up. we've talked in school and online (aim) and now its driving me nuts. Were both busy this weekend but monday ( our last day of school might be a bad idea) or tuesday im gonna talk to her, probably on the phone and if given the chance im just gonna show my cards, roll the dice. Im not good at totally saying i like you as more than a friend without some signs that its mututal. Her mom has hinted to my mom but i cant honestly say that she has shown signs, it seems like she has but it might be wishful thinking.
She might be going to a party saturday with a kid that likes her but she has told me she doesnt like him. It seemed like she has made subtle hints but is too shy to come out and tell me so im taking the initative. Her friend who i dont know has asked me if I hated her, im pretty sure she told her too but i said no i really liked her too make the point.
Right about now our friendship or whatever you'd like to call it is not a priority i really like her and im just gonna say it and see what she says because its eating away at me these mind games. Im hoping that said confidently it will make her realize she likes me, tell me that she has, or worst case scenario think i have the balls to say it. If she says she just wants to be friends ill probably say fine and just ignore her and only speak when spoken too because im not interested in pursing girls that are friends right now.
Now my Questions for you kind folks:
1. Is it a bad idea because it happens to be our last day of school? would I seem weak waiting till the last day of if i say it gutsy enough will it not matter?
2. I dont want a speech but how does "I was thinking alot about you this weekend and i like you as more than a friend." is that to overused or just straight forward enough to work?
3. I'd probably be more content with rejection rather than this continuing and wondering going back and forth and not knowing. I really want to be with her but if she says she just wants to be friends or likes somebody else etc. will it totally destroy any communication/chance if it is the "wrong time"?
I know it was a long read but some help would be greatly appreciated between now and 12 hours from now as i wont be around this weekend. Thanks again.