A turn of events

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Thank Ineligible. Just trying to add some good in the world where I can.

Well here's probably the final update to this saga.Over the past couple of days I have learnt a lot of things, about my ex-ex (my exes sister).Originally I had been told that her ex claimed he was gay to break up with her, then went out with another girl.the other day I found out that this other girl is now pregnant with his child.What's worse is that through all of this, my ex was sleeping with him. While I was with her.So she was cheating on me.She told me she hadn't seen him since February...Furthermore, I find out that she participated in anal sex with him. Both giving and recieving, involving pencils and strap-ons and the like.Also, she told me she hadn't had a boyfriend since him, and that I was the first since. I discovered that this was also a lie, and she went out with someone else for 2 months before me.So it seems that she broke up with me because she was still fucking her ex who was supposedly gay and got his new girlfriend pregnant.Nice story huh?So I'm glad to be out of that family now - they're all totally messed up. Even her mother, who lost her husband to her daughter's best friend, is still married to him...Unfortunately it doesn't cure the feelings of lonliness. I'm feeling so alone at the moment and i just need someone to be with.

OK. She just messaged me asking how I was, but didn't reply to my response.Firstly it sucks because it reminded me of her, and secondly it sucks because she thinks of me more when we're not together.Should I chase this up, or just let it slide?

Forget her and all her friends, family, etc.!!!!!!!! Leave it be.

:smile: ok
Thanks Amanda.

I'm getting very bitter at all girls now.Any time one talks to me I feel they're out to stab me in the back.I don't know how I'm going to stop this one.I've blocked them all off my msn list, and I refuse to reply to text messages (incidentally, I found out the one my ex sent was a drunken mistake).I don't know how long it's gonna be before I hate females altogether.

I hope you re-read your post.Essentially, you WANT to hate females altogether. I say WANT, because you don't have to let yourself feel this way, but you are, and over a few bad experiences... and YES, even if ALL your relationships were "bad experiences", that's still a few. There are hundreds of women to be met, but you'd rather shut yourself out of those possibilites.Now considering you just mentioned that some message you got from your ex was "drunken mistake", that's pretty bad criteria to start hating women. You're going to let the actions of a DRUNKEN GIRL help you decide to hate women. Not the best judgement call, but certainly your choice to make.The point I'm making here is don't let this crap give you a reason to feel bitter. Do something constructive, instead of self-destructive.

dude. you've been talking about the same problem for a long time. what an ego trip. ever thought about helping someone else with their problem instead of focusing so much on your own?

I'm sorry what?I've been posting about as well, giving tips and helping.I think I deserve some help of my own after the crap I've been put through.YOU'RE the egotistical one.Think before you speak, "dude"

Back off dude. You've made 8 posts before I responded to this. Leave him alone. If you don't like it don't read it. No one's forcing you to take part in this post. So if you don't like this post don't bother with it.