Ok, my ex girl friend and I got in to a big fight a while back, and were not talking. Now we are talking again and are awesome friends. She has a new b/f and is doing great with him. Im confused tho, because she said she still loves me, and im in her heart. She also said that she wants to have sex with me. I told her that that would be cheating on her b/f. She told me that "if it is with you, idc" then she said "maybe because I love you more then him" Why would she still love me so much, wants to have sex with me and cheat on her boy friend. We have never had sex before, and im a virgin, we were talking about it, more like I was thinking about it, soon before we broke up. It never happened, but she still wants to have sex with me. @.@ Any help would be nice. :/
Dont do anything until she breaks up, shes trying to string two guys along and play games. both of which are baaaaaaad things!
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It sounds like she took up with the other guy on the rebound, and now regrets it. But she has to make up her mind. Until she tells the other guy it's over, don't consider it.
perhaps when you broke up she met another guy, she and the other guy got into a fight and she wants to get revenge. But geting in the fight she also started to miss you. people somtimes understand the value of somthing/somone when they lose it.
personally i'm surprized i thought it was only the men who cheated.
> personally i'm surprized i thought it was only the men who cheated.
What?!?!? Women cheat just as much as men.
<i>Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter.</i> -- MLK
My gut instinct says that she's playing with you, but not trying to hurt you. She knows you want sex, but my guess is that she's scarced to death by it. Now that she has a boyfriend, she feels safe expressing her desire to have sex--knowing she doesn't have to go through with it.
She probably broke it off with you because it was getting to hot in the kitchen. Don't expect her to easily admit that she's scared. She may not have admitted it to herself.
If you love her and want to deepen you're relationship, you will need to prove to her that she is safe with sharing her feelings with you. Gradually she will get to the scarey stuff. She needs to face her fears before she will be ready for sex.
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sorry steve, i guess i listen in way to much when my mom is watching opra lol