Right. So I've got something of a problem; I've started seeing this girl who is waay outa my league. She's beautiful, I'd say around a 8.5. I was out one night, saw her and thought "what the hell?" and asked for her number. And here we are. We've been on three great dates, been back to hers after the second one but didn't really do anything.
My problem is that today after a lot of kissing etc in this park we came back to mine and I, erm, couldn't really get it up. Had it for a while, lost it and that was it. For one reason and another it wasn't a huge deal, but now I'm terrified. I have this amazing girl who I'm crazy about but what if I can't perform when I have to? I know that I'm basically anxious about my performance, but do you have any ideas about how to minimize the effects of my low self esteem? I really don't want to lose this one.