Need help trying to not masturbate

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i wanna not masturbate for a long period of time so that when i finally do, it'll be a big orgasm. does anybody have any tips on how to stay away from masturbation. i think i may need more willpower. i dont know.

Masturbation is good. Keep doing it.Wanna stay away from it though? Become a Christian.

In all seriousness, if ya wanna have real intense orgasms, try a cockring! One of those elastic hair rubber bands works good for me, but only use one of those if ya keep your hair down there trimmed short. An actual "store bought" cockring will work for anyone else. I'm serious, it works real good.

I digress.I had a cockring and it did nothing but cause swelling and pain. Maybe it was too tight but I don't like those still.You could always pop viagra though. I don't need that shit but I hear it gives intense orgasms.

Maybe they sell Ejaculette gum, or a patch. Either of those might help.Seriously though... there's really not much you can do but.. well, just not do it. I would suggest conjuring up foul images to make yourself flaccid when you get the urge, but that would detract from the point of the exercise: building up your libido for a larger burst at one time. You could avoid spending time alone, though. Instead of hanging out in your room, go to the library or something.

If I may add, when I was 13 or 14, I'd get erections in class and they'd show and I almost got detention for that. It's not easy being a guy and I admit, it don't take much for me to pitch a tent.

If you wish to avoid masturbation, read or do something that doesn't make you think of sex. Work or something.

I found that the best way to get your mind off sex is too keep yourself really busy and stressed out. When i was working 10-14 hour days i was too tired to even think about sex or masturbate, I basically worked all day and only came home to sleep then woke up and back to work i went. I guess you can try that if you want. Try doing a sales job where they pressure you to sell things even if it means lying to the customers. That'll stress you out bigtime.

just dont masturbait, plain and simple.

oh shit~~ ROFL... LMAO... that's a good one....why stop when it feels good already... it doesn't matter if u wan to have a big orgasm later on... why not have it all the time ?

Play Halo 2 on Live! a lot. You'll be having so much fun, you'll want to not do it.

You need to stay as busy as possible with other things, so that you're so busy, you don't have time to think about masturbating, and you're never alone enough to do it. Play sports, work several jobs, take up hobbies, whatever to keep yourself busy. Make sure you never have privacy and alone time, because that's when you will be most tempted to masturbate.

Play Halo 2 on Live! a lot. You'll be having so much fun, you'll want to not do it. lol, i play this a lot. your statement is also true.

just don't or if u can't resist, looking at porn for awhile ususally gives a big orgasm.

I agree with everyone that states to keep your self VERY busy. Go out jogging or hang out with friends, less time you are alone the less chance of thinking about masturbation. Also if you do a lot of physical activities like working out, jogging etc etc it will also help build testosterone that will also aid in a higher sex drive and better orgasms.

Ok guys, i have to ask, will not masterbating for a long time give the guy a more intense enjoyable orgasm, or is that just a misconception???? I can't say that if i don't cum for a while its better for me personally.............i wonder, so i ask

Angel.. For me it gives a better orgasm and a better ejaculation(Amount and how far it "shoots"). My BF on the other hand says it doesn't effect the intensity of the orgasm but it does give a better ejaculation for him.So it seems like a pretty individual thing

**Thanks for that hon *hugs* ............still not getting the whole, how far it shoots thing, but there we go *grin* **

Well Glad to give any info I can as for the whole Shooting thing.. I think it more comes from how intense and exciting the sex (or masterbation) was. I'm sure same with you females when you are highly stimulated and/or have very intense sex you have a more incredible orgasm that say from a quicky or such. Pretty much the same for us guys, when highly stimulated we have a better orgasm hence the further we shoot heheI dunno if that helps any hehe.

Imsmart: Some fellows would think that you are going at it all wrong ... that to refrain from masturbating, altogether, will only frustrate you. Try "edging", instead."Edging" is where you stimulate yourself to the point of orgasm and then pull back, perhaps to the flaccid state, and then start over again, and again, and again, but never to orgasm until after days or weeks. Evidently the results are worth the discipline necessary to achieve this state, as a fellow becomes absolutely infused with sexuality. Don't know if you are old enough for Yahoo groups like "Edging Denial Club", but a few of that group's members have gone over a month without orgasm, while edging every day. I understand that the consequences can be rather mind-blowing. Korydon

I find it more effective to orgasm as fast as possible, than to "edge". But, I've only "edged" in one masturbation session, never for a month, lol.