I am small and I can't stand it

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I actually have seen quite a few guys my age or younger w/ hard ones in various situationsFirst of all, that's pretty curious. Secondly, as was mentioned in another thread, your perception of your own size versus the size of others is distorted by the the angle that you're viewing from; if your penis is the same size as another guy's, his will look bigger than yours. Thirdly, you have what you have and you will have to learn to deal with it. You can't get a penis transplant, and it doesn't sound like the prieshood is an option for you.Seriously, there are people who fall in various places on the curve in a lot of different ways. Your penis size obsession, not your penis size, is destructive to your having a happy life. Your mind is absolutely made up, based on....what? Let's say you're dating someone for a while, and then you decide to have sex. What do you think will happen?I've been to clothing optional beaches and I've noted that men of all sizes, with penises of all sizes, were with women. They didn't seem to have any major problem.

hand size has nothing to do with penis size. I only have small hands and my dick is 7" hard. My buddy has the biggest hands i have ever seen and he's 6".

Let me try and calm you down a bit about the 'girl laughing at you' situation. 5" is a decent size, (it's not huge, but it's not tiny either) and any girl with a normal sense of reality and morality is not going to laugh at you because you CAN PLEASURE HER - that's what real sex is about: pleasure and not image. A female's vagina is only pleasure senstive only up about half-way up (ie about 3" in).....sooo do the math!

Yeah but I mean what about like handjobs and stuff? In that case you def can tell and see how big it is you know

And? Let me just say this: if a girl laugh/makes fun of ur size then take it as a SURE sign that she's a materialistic bitch and leave the relationship! Someone who cares about you and ur feelings wont care! Plus if you have a 'below average' dick, then it makes deep throating easier, so lay back and enjoy :grin:

You totally missed JenJen's point. The idea of sex is to please each other, not to examine and evaluate each other's sex organs. If you get a hand job, it is for your pleasure. If you enjoy it, then you've met the requirement, no matter the size of your penis.

Hey don't even think about using testosterone unless you have hchecked this out with a doctor and they recommend it.Un-monitored use of testosterone can lead to liver and kidney damage. The other dangers of testosterone are failure of the testicles, making you sterile, and in older males rapid grow of any prostate growts. If a doctor prescribes testosterone that it is measured accurately after having a blood test done to determine pre-use testostrone levels.Most doctors and urologist will not even let you administer your own injections. It is usaully done either by a doctor or health nurse at regular intervals. Your blood is tested about every 4 to 6 months to ensure that you stay at the right levels. It also checks for kidney and liver damage.I would not worry too much about size, wory about what you can do with it. I'm 41 maried and I have close to six inches. My wife has never complained. I have had many urological problems and know what it is like to be impotent. Just be satisfied if everything works OK. It's not like that part of your body is the first thing that everyone is interested in. You are a person not just a penis. Only a few chosen people will get to see it.Don't wory about the others that might be bigger, it makes no difference at all in your capabilities. Respect yourself.

I don't wanna burst anyones bubble of knowledge here on the forum, but 7"?Of the first 1000 guys that'll say they are 7" hard 80% or more are liars or just don't know how to measure it.I've talked with a couple of women who said straight up they prefer a 5" penis to a 9" penis. They said having the end of a 9" penis smashing up against their uterus(SP?) is as uncomfortable as it gets and that after it has penetrated about 4 inches any more is unnecessary.Average is between 5 and 6 inches and those of us with more are blessed to some and cursed to others.I realize just a couple of women isn't a scientific study or anything but these women were being extremely honest.You're not in as bad a shape as you have it in your head.

ALL men lie about their penis size. How are you going to know for sure when someone claims they have 9"?My motto is that if you KNOW how big one of your friends' penises is then you are obviously in a very close friendship with that person, in which case you won't get too much of a hard time, and it certainly won't be spread around the school/workplace because your friend will keep things quiet for you.Girls worry about their breast size, men worry about their penis size. This is a fact of life. But you must ask yourself how long your tongue is when it is stretched out of your mouth. Maybe 2" maximum.Believe me, you can still more than satisfy your partner with that tongue.

5" is under average but it isnt small bro. You can do some good w/ that. I was reading a survery one day where out of 500,000 men polled 77% had a penis 7" or smaller, and 93% had one smaller than 8".Confidence is the biggest thing bro. I used to be like you becuase I thought mine was "thin" & I know how women always talk about girth. I'm about 6.75x4.5" (length x girth), and I've become very confident in myself. I mean it varies depending on the situation becuase I have broke 7" before & I've taped it out almost at 5" around. But on average I think I have an average-size. Penis size doesnt even really come into play until you break up. Then it seems like the exs wanna call you small & spread rumors of how bad you were. The funny thing is, my ex told all her friends how good I was in bed & then when we broke up she started sayin how bad it was. I slept with her best friend, and she told me I was one of the best she's had.What's my point? You just haveta let things flow bro! If you really find a good woman, 5" of penis will be the last thing on her mind!

If you really find a good woman, 5" of penis will be the last thing on her mind! so much for one night stands though...>You can do some good w/ thatlol some...but don't worry man (OP) I have the same problem as you. I haven't been sexually active in over 4 years simply because I have the incling that 4.5" won't be enough for a truly satisfying sexual situation. I'm still a virgin, yes--I don't deny that, and I partially blame my body for that. It makes me angry that I have no control over that (as well as facial hair) and some girls don't seem to understand that. I would never make fun of a girl for any reason pertaining to her vaginal area, but for some reason I don't think it should be such a big deal for them. I know it may be to some girls...i've read the fem. gen. forums...the penis is a sign of verility and masculinity. Being smaller compared to your peers in undoubtedly a huge blow to confindence...especially when you're under the average for all males. I wouldn't feel so bad being 6" and knowing some 9th grader has a 7 or even 8 inch penis. But when you're 4.5 and know even guys in the middle of puberty are already far surpassed...that's just shattering.

If the cock does the job who cares about the length? This whole penis length thing is all brought about by the porn industry with guys with 12" cocks who have got that way through medication and other means. A big penis isnt everything to do with life or even sex. Just because you have a big cock doesnt make you a big man.

Ive said it before and i will say it again, it doesn't matter how big, small, thin or thick it is, for most women (not shallow ones) its who its attached to and how they use it that counts

i used to think like him aswell, but since ive come to this forum pple have convinced me other wise and im vrey happy with what ive got In reply to: This whole penis length thing is all brought about by the porn industry with guys with 12" cocks who have got that way through medication and other means i couldent agree more

It's all in what you do with it. For 10 years I was with a man who couldn't have been over 4.5". And for the last year and 1/2 he was under 4". Very self conscious, but it didn't bother me. He was good. The man I'm with now a little over 5".

**my ex was 8.5ish by 7.5 -8ish, my new hubby isn't, and it definitely doens't mean i enjoy it any less. **

i do like some girth though.

5" is under averageThere's not a lot of good data on penis size, but what data there is points to an average length of no more than 5 1/2 inches. It's only the first few inches of the vagina that are sensitive anyway.Who polled 500,000 guys? I'm not sure I'd put a lot of credence into self-reporting about penis size anyway.BMoC> I would never make fun of a girl for any reason pertaining to her vaginal area, but for some reason I don't think it should be such a big deal for them. I know it may be to some girls...i've read the fem. gen. forums...the penis is a sign of verility and masculinity.There are men who post things about not liking this thing or that about women. It doesn't mean they all feel that way, by any measure. The women (or girls) who post that stuff don't represent all women. That leave lots of people who don't go along things like that.If I were 18, I'd worry a lot more about meeting girls then I would about my penis size. The likelihood of having a sexual relationship is pretty close to zero if you don't meet anyone, if that's what you're after.

dude my dicks like 2 inches, i dont know why but im gonna chop it off cause its useless

You guys all say that it doesn't matter how big it is, it's who its attached to. That is true in a sense, but not for people my age(18). Sure, if I was 25-40, and my dick was as it is now 5.75" x 4.5" around, I wouldn't be as self-conscious because women would actually have maturity by then. When you're 16-18ish, it's ALL about the penis size. If you've ever listened to a girl my age talk about penis size, it's all about how big it is. I'm sure there are some exceptions, but I can't seem to find any, which is bullshit because it's not like I would judge a girl because she has small breasts?I was just with my friend and these 2 girls not that long ago and they were sitting there making fun of ex-boyfriend's they had had with small penises. Saying they could of probably jacked it off with their pinky and stuff like that, and that is how the majority of girls my age are(and i know quite a few). It's not so much length that should be a concern, it's the girth that really matters. I'm sitting here stuck with 4.5" girth, very self-conscious, because i've never seen a penis as thin as mine, then again i've never seen a penis outside of a porno. Hey but I know in reality, my penis is probably fine, a girl who actually liked me wouldn't care that my penis was small. But hey, 5" is fine in length, if you have the girth to back it up, if not, go for it anyways, ATLEAST you would have given it a shot so you REALLY KNOW how a girl would react, I think that would really help you.