I`m so hurt its insane

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My girl of 3 years fell in love (crush as she says) with another guy she knew when she was younger..Hes in the Military and just looking for sex but she thinks hes hot so that may work to his advantage.Relationship is done , she now goes out every night drinking and clubbing and lieing to me saying she is sleeping... Not to mention hanging with lots of guys from her work.I saw the best in this relationship and actually saw marriage, I felt so loved and gave all my heart to her. Its like talking to an addict now and a liar when I talk to her, Shes a different person.. Its insaneWell I will continue on hurting and growing stronger everyday. Please be careful guys, A relationship that you have second thoughts about , get out early , it just grows so much harder as time goes on..And also when your in a relationship , dont blow off all your friends for this one girl or guy... Because with me I did and now I dont have many people to go talk too and stuff. All the best.

So sorry, john123.

wow. Unbelievable. Im so sorry:(

Lame. If she had that in her, maybe you're best off without her? Never know if that might have happened later, and it'd suck even more, right?

Thanks guys, I am doing pretty well its just weekends that get me down because I know she is out partying and having fun without me. She is still a big part of my life and in my heart and I hope the best for her but its just crazy that she moved on sooo quick or so she says.. I am having a hard time even thinking about another girl..

Well, no one said you have to think about another girl immediately.Screw her, and give yourself some time to heal.You'll be fine. Find a hobby or something.

So a twist to the situation...

I found out she has done COKE 3 times with this guy (2 months ago) hes a recovering drug user , in the military now to straighten him out...

She said it was just there shes not gonna do it again but ya.... Now I know where all the lying came from...

*stab stab*

Learning more dark secrets about her isn't exactly a good hobby.It sucks what happened, but you'll be happier in the long run.

high Fives Virtualyeah!