Do girls really get horny?

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I dont think Iv said it in ages.

Men, and women are the same when it comes to this. You have your men that want sex all the time, and you women who want it all the time, the same goes for not wanting it, wanting it less with time, and being a top or a bottom in sex.With that said, It sounds like you have some issues of communication with your girl that you need to work out yourself, we can't do that for you.

although id like to point out that its fair to blame whatever you believe created people because if this were a fair world, men wouldnt hit their sexual peak at 18 and women around 45-50! i know im hilarious right?

Not all girls have sex for money or because they want attention. it's about love. Personally I understand why I'm not having sex at the moment because I KNOW it's not what my relationship is about. It's about love. Pure love. But what you're going through, I can kinda identify with but only a little. Except I'm not upset. I'm worried. But that's for a story for another time. I know you feel upset but please try not to be. If you truly love her, you guys should talk about it without it leading into an argument. In other words, don't let it turn into a heated exchange. Right now life may just be getting in the way but you have to try not to let it get to you. I'm not trying to tell you what to do I'm just giving you advice. But you don't have to accept it if you don't want to.

well star she is a "masturbator". i thought i included the part where she said she masturbated almost every day this summer. and i just dont fuckin get how you can think about sex and "crave" it but the first thing you do when you get home is sleep. especially if its after school. If sleep at 3 pm is more important than a craving for sex then thats not actually a craving. its more like itd be cool but im too tired. not a craving for it. I just wish I felt that i was attractive.

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I just wish I felt that i was attractive.
Let her know that! I'm sure she's going to want to know that if she truly loves you.

Like Java pointed out, you'll have some people who want to have sex on the spot, but there are times when the same people who don't feel like having sex, whatsoever.

I'm like that. There are times when I miss sex and enjoy it when it happens. But because I'm currently going to school six days a week, I'm easily too tired to even think about sex. In fact, my boyfriend and I just talked about it earlier this evening. He and I are going to figure out a way to at least put in one day during the week when we can get intimate (long story short, my schooling killed my sex life).

That's what I meant about finding common ground. Maybe you and your girlfriend can figure out somethiing like that. Or at least start talking to her when she's ready to talk. Ask her how she feels about your sex life.

I wish you the best of luck!

School, work, they can be sex drive killers, but just wait until there are kids around! Just when you think they are sleeping....

I have heard that normally girls don't have desire for intercourse. They like to be kissed,caressed...When you do it for some time , eventually they get horny and want to be shagged without any delay.However , guys are always willing to start it immediately ! So I think kissing and other romantic moves are necessary before you can get your girl ready for sex !

that works to get them int eh mood, but if you think they are never in the mood with out it, that they dont finger fuck themselves and vibrate themselves till their teeth shake all on their own with out a man kissing and caressing them, then your a fool.
THey get horny same as us, some more than others, some less. But they all get horny, with no help form an outside source pressuring them into it.

Originally Posted By: Dantek

although id like to point out that its fair to blame whatever you believe created people because if this were a fair world, men wouldnt hit their sexual peak at 18 and women around 45-50! i know im hilarious right?

Thankfully that's not true Dantak, lol. Women are well known to hit their sexual peak at 15/20 years before menopause, which lands most women at the age of about 30/35. (and I can personally attest to that, lol)

really? wow thats neat thank you lol, still gotta wait 12 years for her to catch up though!

see, thats why man invented TiVo , pause for a quickie then its back to the show! although in my case itd be pause for a quickie then forget about the show altogether...