I Want to freaking kill this kid.

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So what I did was I kinda "created" a new girl who just moved here in maine, and am now telling her about how we were out on our boat all day, and I am going to make her insanely jealous until she cracks, and then I am just gonna fire back at her everything she does.
You just made a huge and moronic mistake.

Playing mind games DOESN'T get you anywhere. What you're doing is playing with your girlfriend's feelings and that's completely unfair and unnecessary.

All you're doing is playing right into the hands of this guy.

Be a man and talk to her. Who gives a fuck about what this guy thinks. This is your relationship, no one else's business.

And also threating to kick this guy's ass doesn't help as well. If you continue to hold in this anger, it's going to explode into something ugly and you might do something you'll regret.

Ask yourself, what means more to you, your relationship or winning this petty fight with some random guy?

I really don't care at this point, I just want her to realize what its like for me.So far it seems to be working. She keeps asking me about her and I can tell she is getting angry/jealous.After a while she will crack, and then go all emotional on me and break down and be like "Well, I know you have been talking about this girl a lot, and I just wanted to know what you guys have been doing" or something along that line. She is incredibly nosy with me, and gets all protective when I talk to other girls.I am just gonna reply and then explain the situation.It may seem cruel, but it is the only way that it is going to actually make her realize what it is like for me. After that, I should be able to control what she lets him do.I have a fairly different way of handling things, so what you think is acceptable is probably completely different from what I think is acceptable.

What a way to be a man.

What you're doing is no different from what that other guy is doing. Congrats, you are now on the same, low level as he his.

It would be a lot less cruel if you just break up with her now.

Originally Posted By: Virtual_StarWhat a way to be a man.What you're doing is no different from what that other guy is doing. Congrats, you are now on the same, low level as he his.It would be a lot less cruel if you just break up with her now. again... Originally Posted By: snatchI have a fairly different way of handling things, so what you think is acceptable is probably completely different from what I think is acceptable. and I know that this will work.

You think it's acceptable to play and hurt another person's feelings just so you can say, "Ha! Now you know how I feel"? Completely childish. What's worse, you're now exposing how little you respect your girlfriend.It's not too late to just break up with her now, rather than have this drag on and turn into something worse.How can you come here and ask for advice if you weren't planning on listening?

let us know how it goes!!!! im actually very curious now.

Originally Posted By: ashley69let us know how it goes!!!! im actually very curious now. I will let you know

How old are you?

any more news?

Originally Posted By: CockRockerHow old are you? 17 almost 18, but that is irrelevant.I will keep you guys updated as things happen.

I know the type of guy you're talking about, and they are pretty sneaky but you're acting just like him. In the end if all you wanted to say was "Now you know how I feel", your girlfriend is going to think you're quite childish, especially if she finds out this girl is not even real.It would be much better to just man up and tell you girlfriend that you don't like how this guy acts around her, and if she doesn't do anything to change the situation, then you might as well end the relationship because it will only make you more and more angry. Making up girls and telling lies to try and trick your girlfriend into seeing how you feel is just going to get complicated and is definitely not worth it. You'll just look bad in the end, and if it is tactics like those that you feel are acceptable, well then good luck with any future girlfriends, I'm sure they will really like you.

I have asked her several times already, and no matter what I do, or no matter what she says, he STILL does it to her, and she is AFRAID to tell him not to. She doesn't understand it.

so whats going on? did you talk to her or no?

If she is afraid to tell him not to, then how does making up some girl to get her jealous help to solve anything. I don't see how it will make her less afraid to tell him. Unless she stops being afraid and tells this guy that he can't keep doing what he does, you're going to have to either choose to live with it for now or end your relationship. You could also try and talk to the guy yourself and hope he isn't a stubborn little shit about it. As I said, I know the type of guy you're talking about and if you did anything violent against him it will only make you look bad since he probably wouldn't fight back or anything, and your girlfriend wouldn't be too pleased with you obviously.

She's YOUR girlfriend, set time aside for just the two of you. If he tries to butt in (or god forbid, she invites him to), take him to the side and calmly but affirmatively tell him you're wanting some one-on-one time with her, and want him to keep away at these times. I know the kind of person you're describing, and usually that's enough to scare them the hell away. Don't be violent or abusive, because they can turn that on you. If he goes running screaming about how you threatened him, and all you did was tell him to keep away because you wanted some time alone with the girl, you have nothing to worry about.

Originally Posted By: snatch

Originally Posted By: CockRocker

How old are you?

17 almost 18, but that is irrelevant.

I will keep you guys updated as things happen.

I never said it was relevant, I just asked.

You seem pretty cocky and immature.

Fighting wont solve anything and never will, and I didn't just say that because I'm a pansy, throughout elementary school and highschool I caused alot of fights and got in alot of fights because I believed it was end-all solution. Sure it settled it for about five minutes and stirred more shit up, but now I've matured and realise fighting won't do anything but make you look stupid.

YOU are sounding like a wimp and pussy because the person who talks the most shit usually gets knocked out.

Print your first post off and show it to your girlfriend so she can see your true colors.

Now, aside from that -

Why do you come to a website and ask or talk, when you're so biased on your own opinion.

You shouldn't have made up a girl, but you did.

So at this point tell her you've stopped seeing her because it was getting a little too serious and you have a girlfriend. Then tell her you're going to stop talking to her(her being girlfriend) because you can't handle someone being underwilled and slightly faithless and to call you when she decides to tell buddy off.

If she doesn't call you, well then you just settled it and should be happier off because you won't be going out with an underwilled and unfaithfull girl.

i agree with everything you said.making someone up was incredibly immature. you need to just come straight out and tell her to tell this guy to back the fuck up. or your leaving.

if you talk to her about it.make sure you dont push it to far because that could make her mad. and most likely her opinons about him are far from yours. so be understanding with her and be calm. dont get angry at her. she might think its her fault.