I’m 27m and my GF 29f we’ve been dating for several months now and things were going great and then she moved in and she’s extremely into 4 wheeling and outdoors stuff which I am as well. She refuses to ask if I would like to join in any of these events so goes to with a group of riders so goes with and honestly spends 95% of her time away from home.. she works 6 days a week already and she wants to get another job on top of it and it’s hard enough to get any time at home with her as it is. She’s constantly on her phone snap chatting guys who I’ve never met and our very little time spent home together she sits on her phone. I feel like it’s a one way street in this relationship she never wants anything to do with me I ask hey let’s go do something just me and you and her response is “we live together” how do we not do anything just me and you. Idk how to approach this cause anytime we talk it turns into it being my fault and I just wanna be happy with her cause at the beginning things were beyond perfect. But now I feel like I have a roommate and on top of that we haven’t had sex In 1 1/2 months and she just rolls over away from me in bed.. I don’t wanna be that sad sack boyfriend begging for affection or attention but she never wants to do anything with me.
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Is my relationship doomed
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Too many signs all pointing the same way--trouble ahead. I'd cut my losses now if I were you.
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I agree with Ineligible. You are being used... you are nothing more than a roommate. It's more than obvious that she is hooking up with someone else. Don't be a sap... boot her out.
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@sdp Actually it was readytogo--but I am of the same mind.
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I decided last night to be that boyfriend and search her phone she was at work at got her hair done and said after she was running by her sisters house we’ll come to find out she met up with some dude.. at 2am I told her to pack her shit and leave
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@Florida27guy Tough but assuredly a good move.
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@readytogo Whoops!!! Sorry about that.. It's an age thing.. lol
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@sdp But you said it so much better...
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I think your relationship with her is over a long time ago. I don't know what keeps you stay in such a type of relationship. And hey she's cheating on you.
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If the girl refuses to go to the contact and discuss the problem, then I'm afraid I have bad news. But in the end you need to somehow get her to talk about this before making a decision
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@redcat I think the decision was made 3 months ago. He's moved on which, in my opinion, was a good move. It's tough in the short run, but sooner or later mu st be done.
