NO CONDOM...WHAT THE HELL

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im a guy and i dont understand how guys could be dumb enough not to use one or trying to convince ther gf's not to use one because it "feels better"

I agree! I have slept with a few girls, but each of them was on BC and i still wore a condom, but what the fu** are these girls thinking? Just close you f****** legs if they don't want to wear a condom!

i agree but calm down a tad, ive never had sex without one but i can see how someone could get caught in a moment...

I would rather not have to get caught up in having a child either!

ive gotten caught in the moment not wearing a condom but just for the beginning then i started thinkin CHILL i dont want no kids and put one on. thank god she didnt get pregant and i have no std's. but i will tell u this i was scared for the next week just imagining the worst.

I've gotten caught in the moment a few times... Though she was on BC I was still scared. I haven't had sex with anyone I wasn't in a relationship with, but I keep a condom on me just in case. It's not worth the scare.

y'all are definately right, but for some reason to me it feels much better without wearing one. I'd much rather have her on Birth Control & then me use the pull-out method. I'm 99.9% sure that the girls I date are clean, so I'm not too worried about STDs. BC & pull-out should control the baby problem.BUT, I generally keep a condom on me also.

Ive learned this at health classIts unsafe when not using condomsCoz most people put condoms only at the climax of their cummingsSome use withdrawalBut its unsafe becaz theirs this thing called pre-ejaculation

Welcome to AfraidToAsk, Ensignzeroshin!In reply to:most people put condoms only at the climax of their cummingsI don't think most people would do that. It's certainly a very unsafe way to do it. Doing it that way, or using withdrawal, first, you can easily be too late, and second, as you say, the pre-ejaculation fluid (pre-cum) can contain sperm that it has picked up along the way.

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In this day and age STD's are so rampant, unless the girl has been recently tested I wouldn't make any assumptions if I were you!

pullout dosent work cuz of pre-cum

the odds of gettin a girl pregnant from precum is definately not very good.

It's like 25%, that's a little too good for me!

it's less than that. its more around the 5% mark, if that.

The pull out method is 79% effective or somethimg close to that, medical fact!

This site quotes it as 79% effective. I wouldn't want to take that chance!

That means that 21 out of every 100 times the girl ends up pregnant.

it feels better for you guys with one but better for us girls with out only had sex without one once but it was great.

I will say that the first month or two of my sexual activity as a teen, I used the hell out of some condoms...about 2 dozen a week, give or take. But after my g/f went on BC, we didn't bother. Little did I know at the time, but I was shooting blanks all along (found out my first year in the Army). Even with the STDs floating around out there, I still didn't use condoms very often with other women in the military, because we were a somewhat controlled group and got tested all the time for STDs. Hell, we carried our test results in our wallets!Sometime later, my boys started making good swimmers, but in the meantime, the rhythm method worked quite well for many years. I would simply come inside, since I was shooting blanks.Then I met my wife and the chemistry was right. You see, chemistry plays a lot in baby-making. If the woman's pH and natural immune system is hostile to the man's sperm, he may never get her pregnant. Lucky for me, my sperm was healthy and strong and she got pregnant our first time. Also lucky for me, I had not contracted some form of incurable STD. Those days are far behind me now.Anyone who says that it feels the same with a rubber on must be a novice. Sheepskin condoms are more sensual than latex, but don't protect against STD's. I do advocate condoms for anal play, as there is nothing much more painful than getting an infection in the slit of your dick because some bad bacteria got into it when you had your jimmy up some girl's butt. But, if you choose not to follow my advice, you can still shoot off in her bowels without running the risk of getting her pregnant!

Actually you can still get a girl pregnant even by anal. It is possible for some seamen to leak down into the vagina. I may be wrong, but that is what I have been told. Just plain and simple: use a condom unless you are a couple/married and you both agree that you want kids. That is as simple as it gets. Remember that saying, better safe then sorry? Well its best application is here.