Asking out?

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you guessed wrong, and fail yet again.

No, you are tedious and humorless. Are you looking for a logical proof?

there is no logical proof, because you are wrong. Takes a bit more then text on the internet to find out that kind of stuff about me, nice try though.

I don't really care much about you, but you seem pretty obsessed with me. Should I be flattered, or should I get a gun?You actually made a couple of posts today that were a stab at being constructive. You're on the right track. Keep it up.

In reply to: I don't really care much about you, but you seem pretty obsessed with me. Should I be flattered, or should I get a gun? you fail again at guessing, you're on a streak!

Yeah problem is most people my age don't use those sites, 40 year old divorcees use those sites, while I don't mind a hot milf, they usually don't go for anyone under 30 because they only look at the listed income anyways, even though I'm worth more than most 30 year olds financially i cant even get a woman to go for my cash. I dont get this shit, its not like i look like napolean dynamite i look more like fuckin tom cruise. and next time i hear a girl say "oh mhy boyfriend..." im going to punch that bitch in the fuckin face, i dont give a fuck about their jock boyfriends, thanks for announcing it to all of us you stupid whores.

Yeah problem is most people my age don't use those sites, 40 year old divorcees use those sitesYou are utterly clueless. That is not true. And there are plenty of sites like faceparty.com and myspace.com, which has members of all ages, but where the great majority are around your age. You just have to be willing to make the effort and send messages. It's really not magic. If their profile says they're single, then they're probably single. If it says that they're "in a relationship" or "lesbian", then don't waste your time.> and next time i hear a girl say "oh mhy boyfriend..." im going to punch that bitch in the fuckin face, i dont give a fuck about their jock boyfriends, thanks for announcing it to all of us you stupid whores.Some girls are jerks, but they're not whores because they have a b.f. and you don't have a g.f. You must be really pissed at people who are married.

no i feel sorry for people who are married.im already on that facebook shit and that didnt get me friends. i am not going to date online, im just going to try and sway them with money and let them use me, better that than to die alone. worked for the dude who married anna nicole

You'd be better off spending less time thinking up witticisms to post on some forum, and more time cultivating social skills. You learn by doing.The idea of those sites and dating sites is that you make the effort to communicate with people. For better or worse, women will usually not contact you. You have to contact them. It might be different if you looked like Brad Pitt (or put up his picture), but 99% of guys don't look like Brad Pitt. Yet most of that 99% are able to get dates. The idea is that it's doable. If it's not working for you, it's not because the world sucks. It's because you're doing something wrong. You need to fix it. If you can't fix it yourself, then counseling beats the crap out of misery.

Its cause im shy and talk to quiet, the only way ive gotten remotely close to scoring is when i was drunk or high or cocaine, and unfortunately i cant do either at school, maybe coke in the bathroom but i dont have the cash and i got tired of waking up with a red ring around my lips from licking them all night. but i did meet a lot of people, talked really fast and obnoxious and made no sense, but was quite social

> talked really fast and obnoxious and made no sense, but was quite social

You were born too late. There were a lot of people like that in the 80's.

> the only way ive gotten remotely close to scoring

You need to worry about getting close to getting a date before you worry about scoring.

> Its cause im shy and talk to quiet

I don't think there's a magic bullet for that. If can type the way you type here, there's no reason you shouldn't be able to hold a conversation. You don't seem to care what people think of you here; you need to carry that into your real-life interactions, to some extent. When you get older, you will definitely know what I mean. You may be a bit odd, but you don't seem to be boring. Obviously you need to think of something to say to a girl beyond the crazy stuff you say on this forum.

You need to be in situations where you come into contact with women, so you can talk to them the way you would talk to anyone, like friends, family, etc. As I said before, just keep doing it, and it will get easier. You're not going to impress everyone you talk to. No one does. If someone doesn't like you, then such is life. It happens to everyone.

But keep doing it, and you will get more confident. Appearing confident (even if you're not) is part of the game. Remember, mind your voice volume and body language. I assume you already have the grooming thing down. It will get easier.

or maybe some people (like me and white_lines), are destined to never get a g/f... but hey... someone has to do it.

If you were in a hospital, in a coma, I'd agree with you. But go out and look around. See who's coupled up, and think, "Is that guy really better than me?" In some cases, probably so. In most cases, probably not. You just have to get over the hump, to where a girl will talk to you for a few minutes. It's definitely no slam dunk at that point, but it's a start. Eventually, you'll get a date.But you're not likely to succeed if you sit at home an play video games. At least get on a Web site where you can meet and converse with another person. A message board is not very good for the purpose. You need to get on a meet-other-people site.

Well supposededly I'm better looking than 69% of other males listed on that hotornot site, if a girls hot men just go to her, if a guy is good looking no one approaches them. fuck this world

At least can't hang your "bad luck" on your looks. You just need to "approach" (i.e., attempt to communicate with) a female. Life is unfair. Humans are socal animals, and there are certain games you are obligated to play if you want companionship. If you'd rather just pout and whack off in solitude, so be it.Or learn how to play the game.

ill just ask will smith to match up women for me

haha good one! mastershake is still the best too!

Well if he can match a clumsy fat guy with a hot blonde I don't see why not, I think I know someone who met him once. Anyhow, I don't think I'll ever be able to meet any girl. I missed out during my high school years putting me behind forever. I look like a complete retard in social situations anyways, I can't control the volume of my voice so I literally whisper when I talk, and then I can't get my words out right. And I feel like everyone analyzes everything I do, god damn im pathetic

Pathetic, no. you are just shy. But i mean you just need to work at it. I dont mean to insult you but avoiding it is not the way. Lots of times i always get nervous about talking to a girl i dont know. I know its very nerve racking but i just take a deep breath and just do it. if she rejects you, who cares, just brush yourself off and go do it again.

In reply to:Anyhow, I don't think I'll ever be able to meet any girl. I missed out during my high school years putting me behind forever. I look like a complete retard in social situations anyways, I can't control the volume of my voice so I literally whisper when I talk, and then I can't get my words out right. And I feel like everyone analyzes everything I do, god damn im patheticThere are a lot of guys in college who have girlfriends, but who never had date in high school. You act like you're 70, and you've spent your life in prison. And everyone is definitely not analyzing what you do. In reality, people pretty much don't care what you do. The problems you mentioned can be fixed. You just need to put in the effort to fix them.Seeing someone in real life (counselor/psychologist/etc.) can be a big help. In any case, it couldn't hurt. You're probably not going to find a magic bullet for your problem on the Internet...certainly not here. Or you can just keep suffering. It's up to you.