Help me please, I am a 14 year old boy and I need some advice. I started masterbating like six months ago and now I do it at least fifteen or twenty times a week. Sometimes in school I have to leave to go to the bathroom so I can do it. Whats worse is I am pretty noisy when I do it and I think people found out what I do in the bathroom. Is there a good way to masterbate in the bathroom without getting caught?
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HELP!!!! I think something is WRONG with me!!!!
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There is nothing wrong with you. Most guys masturbate, but it's probably something you don't want spread around your school. Can't you figure out another place? Even if you were quiet, you would probably eventually be found out if you continue at school.
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Shouldn't be too embarrassing if someone found out...you know...you arent the only in the world who does it..
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You could always try to just not do it in school entirely. I've only masturbated in a bathroom twice that I can recall. Both times they were single-person bathrooms with doors and locks.You won't die if you don't do it... and after a while it will become easier to supress the urge. But, I would say that if you are still bent (which obviously you aren't--bad pun, sorry) on doing it in school... just hold your breath and breathe in and out every 10-15 seconds. Also, make sure your pants are down far enough so that your belt buckle and what not are jingling... that's a DEAD give away.And of course, you can say to the dirty little prick who starts the rumour: "So you enjoyed it to?" I'm sure he'll let you be after that .Xathg
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15-20 a week isn't bad. Reports from prisons have shown that some inmates will masturbate up to 7 times per day. That's 50 times a week!live it up. Men peak sexually at age 18 while women peak at age 40. By the time you are 40, your wife/girlfriend will be horny as hell and begging you for sex (unless she just masturbates 15-20 times a week, herself). Unfortunately, by age 40, you will be so far past your sexual peak that you won't want any part of it. You might get an unsolicited erection every other day or so, and if you are lucky, you can get it up when you need to. Your mind will be other places, and you will be thinking about whether or not you mailed in your mortgage payment, rather than the fine woman who is undressing in front of you. At that point, you snap back and realize you better work up a good one, quickly, because she's already going at it without you. That's what happens to old people. pervs, sexually intune couples, proper diet and excersize, and you might feel half as good then as you do now. You'll be wishing for the days when you woke up with the largest woody and needed a place to put it. BTW, when you hit age 21, and you are still incredibly hard all the time, go to a bar and pick up a 35-40 year old woman. Take her home and I guarantee you if you are any good at pleasing, she will run your batteries out and beg you for more. You'll see how the table has turned, and for once you will wish you still had the labido to whack it 15-20 times a week.
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Unfortunately, by age 40, you will be so far past your sexual peak that you won't want any part of it.
That hasn't been my experience, though during the 40s the need has definitely declined.
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By the time you are 40, your wife/girlfriend will be horny as hell and begging you for sex
Alas, that hasn't been my experience either. :frowning:
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i read that women peak sexually at 30
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It could be 30, I'm not a woman, I don't know. I just can speak for my experiences. I'd say they coincide pretty closely with any printed material I have seen on the subject. I also read somewhere that we are evolving faster with all this mordern technology. We eat genetically altered foods, and animals that have been given growth hormones. As a result, we(the entire population) are becoming taller, more muscular, reaching puberty faster, etc... In the Korean war, and in Veitnam, Korean and Vietnamese soldiers were actually terrified of Americans because of our size. I remember reading of one Korean soldier that they stood looking over the dead body of a U.S. soldier, and were marveling at his size, thinking that he could have eaten many Korean soldiers. I know, that sounds funny. One thing I remember from my days of teaching, was the number of young girls who had already started their period. I am talking 9+ year olds... I was talking with one of the regular grade school teachers about why the young 3rd grade girls would ask for a restroom pass, and then take their bookbag into the bathroom with them. I was shocked, they seemed so youngI am not a girl, but I would hazzard a guess that 12-14 would be about the time I would think puberty would start.Knowing all that, I would say that 30 could be the newest figures on this issue. Maybe I made it sound a bit extreme, but I do feel that it is noticeable how much things change with age. I try the obvious things. Diet, exercise, not smoking, keep up with younger guys... I'd say the same goes for women. At any rate, be glad to peak later in life. When you are young, you have loads of sexual yearning, but not a lot of smarts on how to use it effectively. Just about the tme when most guys figure everything out, and are looking to settle down adn have fun, the days of the 30 minute unsolicited erections are long gone.
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i read that women peak sexually at 30 I read it as women reach their peak in their 30's.........not at 30, im passed that.. LOL
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Maybe the ages that ohnonotthatagain is giving are wrong, but the point that men reach their sexual peak at a younger age is absolutely correct.
It seems almost unfair that when younger guys are so ready and really in need of sex, their girls are not yet ready. Then as they age and get involved with their careers and family obligations, the desire lessens just about the time that their women are reaching their peak in terms of desire for sex. -
I was just joking around hon................I agree that the ages are relatively correct it seems............strange then that more women go out with older men............you would think it was the other way around, 30 something women with 18 year old men, both at their peaks............shame really
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Come on, mods! No third chances for crap like this.
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anyways, back on topic... I'm a bit late, but really there is nothing to be worried about. A LOT of people masturbate regularly, but I do think you should try hard to masturbate less at school, and eventually stop permanently. It seems you've become obsessed with the sexual gratification that masturbating achieves, but if you manage to control it and I guess to say... reward yourself by doing it less often, it'll feel better. I mean this as in the longer between sessions, the more climatic the experience... maybe that'll help at least a little bit.
