What Should I Believe?

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Gosh, you've really done your homework on me! LOLWe should call you Steve the Sleuth! Anyways, to answer your question, I think your and my crazy are two different crazies.If he cheats on me or whatever, I'm not going to burn his house down or kill his dog or anything like that. It's not that emotionally unstable crazy you're thinking of. And personally when I told him I was crazy, I think he half believed me LOL. I can't forsee in to the future, so I can't say how I'll be feeling down the line. And I didn't lecture him and I didn't believe the rumors. After that night I asked him about it, we dropped it and haven't brought it up since. I chose to believe him. I don't go off on every guy who wants to date me. We are trying to turn this into a relationship though. And despite the things I say, I am a pretty reasonable person. LOL

WHY must you always do that? Do you get enjoyment out of making people look bad?

I'm trying to help people see how they come across. In this case, "hostile", "angry" and "mistrustful" are a pretty descriptive. I don't know how she is in real life, since I've never met her, and I don't know what tone of voice or what words she used when speaking to the guy she's having a relationship with. All I have to go by is what she posted.She's gotten mostly negative feedback, and she seems mystified by the reaction. It appears that she doesn't see how she's coming across. I'm not saying she's a bad person, or anything like that. It's more of a communications thing.Your case is completely different. I quoted you so you'd see what a hypocrite you come across as. I'm not sure that you got it. At all.

Because we all know SteveA is perfect and never says or does anything wrong....I'm human. I'm allowed to change my mind (or contradict myself) as you say I do. Some of those post are a least a year old that you dragged up. I meant what I said at the time that I said it. So sue me.

The times change, but the tone remains the same. My perfection (or lack thereof) has nothing to do with the issue.

You often come across as angry and hostile. If you're cool with that, then there's no problem. If you're not, and you're mystified by the reaction you sometimes get, then it might be something worth thinking about.

Or you can just give me a hard time. Whaetever you like.

But when you do it you make the person look bad. I'm NOT a bad person Steve, alot of people here know me off the site.. I'm not a hypocrite.. people change.. their views/opinions and beliefs change over the years... You just make yourself look like a jackass when you do it.

If we must hijack this thread....If you think I look like an ass, I'm not very troubled. Just like the original poster, I only know you by what you've posted here (and in your blog). What comes across is someone who has nasty things to say about male homosexuality, but whose behavior (which included a couple of acts of homosexuality) would be judged harshly by most people of your religious persuasion, which is what I assume fuels your intolerance.Other than that, you might be the most wonderful person in the world, for all I know.

Soo.. the person I was and the things I did in my first year of highschool.. represents the person I am now? No.. Maybe you shouldn't judge people on their past.. I can't even post my problems on here because of the remarks you have about me.. I had so many problems going on in my life recently and I was about to lose it.. and I would always turn here or to people on here to ask for advice.. but because of the harshness, hostility and "gangs" on here.. i couldnt.. because I knew you would all bash me and make me feel worse then I already was

yeah, some people take others for granted when it comes to certain things. It usually has to do with previous posts that make them assume these ideas. But it's not anyone's fault really. Sometimes I don't want to say things on here because it's either too personal or I get unwanted remarks lol. Otherwise I just keep it in but sometimes it eats you up like ugh.

If you're planning to bash people because of their sexual orientation and such, then I will give you a hard time. Even here, there are limits. Otherwise, I don't care what you post.

Should gay people be afraid to post for fear of your follow-up?

As for the original poster, the folks who replied negatively might all be crazy, but what they said is probably worth at least a moment's thought.

You think you don't push the limit steve? You are consitantly down right Rude!Gay people shouldn't be afraid to post.. but they should be comfortable with the feedback they are going to get! Not EVERYBODY supports homosexuality.. I don't.. and yeah that thread DID open my eyes a little.. I never said once that I hated or disliked any gay people.

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You are completely missing the point. There is apparently nothing that anyone could have said that would have made a difference to you in regards to this guy so again, why did you bother asking? I'll admit it's been a very long time since I was in that scene but, I can hardly think it has changed so much that Jocks are now the ones getting picked on. lol It is obvious to me and I'm sure everyone one else here that this guy uses girls for sex. And if you still want to be with him, fine. I couldn't care less. It's your life and I hope you're happy with it. But you ask what we think and then you defend the guy. What's that all about?

She defended him? What. I thought this entire thread was the complete opposite.

"He's got to understand that because he is a jock, people are especially going to talk about him. "

ooh... I gotcha.

You think you don't push the limit steve? You are consitantly down right Rude!Fine, then start a new thread and tell me how I should act, if you like. This thread has already been hijacked far enough.> Gay people shouldn't be afraid to post.. but they should be comfortable with the feedback they are going to get! Not EVERYBODY supports homosexuality.. I don't.. and yeah that thread DID open my eyes a little.. I never said once that I hated or disliked any gay people.Exactly, and right back at you. I don't hate you or anyone else here (although the antisemite allegedly from Russia really pushed it).> That word "support" again...it's made another appearance.I don't support any homosexual, and I don't do homosexual things, and I'm not homosexual. Tolerance is important, though. Whatever you think deep down is your own business. I'm more concerned about the atmosphere of intolerance that results when people think it's OK to bash gays, and that criticizing the intolerance is dismissed as "political correctness". You may treat gay people fine; a lot of people don't.There is very good evidence that homosexuality is a trait that people are born with.I'm not black either, but I just as much hate racism toward blacks.

I'm going to state my opinion plain and simple.Drop the chump and move on.

It is obvious to me and I'm sure everyone one else here that this guy uses girls for sex. How is it obvious? How do you know the girls who talked about him didn't have their own agenda?If she dates him but doesn't fall into bed with him, she'll find out soon enough.

I would totally agree if it were one other girl. But if you're getting the same story from different sources, it adds credibility to it. I think it's more likely that the stories are true than that all these girls got together and decided on a story to spread about him.