I get bullied because of two things:My surname (which is Jarman)and my size (coz im fat)
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Have you ever been bullied?
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i reember being bullied in grade school and high school becasue of my wieght, and it still happens. you try and mak the people stop by acting more aggresive to them to try and make them stop, but i doesnt work. they just keep on poking and poking at you to wind you up every day. no matter how much you do, it very hard to try and make em stop, imforing higher authority doesnt work, stopping them yourself doesnt work, so you just have to try to ignore tham and act like they arnt making fun of you and they start to die down.
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good advice. i was in berlin recently. now, i had a horrific time. 2 of my close friends turned on me and decided they didnt like me anymore, im not sure if they still do even after we 'made up'. plus i threw up a lot.the main kicker was this guy i barely know at all tried to trip me up a few times, and i didnt hit him. Sure, i could have fought him, but he has an army of friends from gangs and my friend, who knows these gangs, could have always stopped them from attacking me, but he was one of the ones who turned on me. At the end of the day, i let it roll off my back. Nobody is immune from bullying. You can have 10 huge older brothers with connections to the mafia, and someone can still give you a hard time. I realized its only a big deal if you make it one. Now, if he had punched me, or i had actually tripped, it would be a different story entirely.
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Sadly yes. During years 7-8 (that's aged 12-13 for all you americans), I was bullied by a few people. I wasn't that severe, but poeple (especially in the changing room) used to be nasty to me. Pick on, call me gay, make fun of my then high voice...e.t.cI never got help for it either.Anyway, I used to really hate it and it used to depress me and people still occasionally do it today. But I just think to myself that it made me a stronger person, and I know that becuase of it I've come out a better person and it has made sure I'll do it to anyone else.