Asking friend to Masterbate

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My friend and I are bestfriend we both next door neibor. I want to masterbate with him but I don't know if he knows what masterbating is. And I don't what to look gay. I thought about it and I was thinking I should ask him if he knows what masterbating is and thats it please help me.

Haha. i had the same problem.uhmm just slowly bring it up, and if you prefer this approach, play an "extreme" game of truth or dare and say something like, masturbate, and if you do, then i will. gauge his reaction. if its like "wtf" then bail. and oppisite if not!

1.sleep over2.bring up the topic of sex somehow3.bring up masterbation in the chat4.Ask him if he knows what it is5. a. Explain if he doesnt. b.Talk about it if he does6. a. Ask if he wants to do itb. Ask if he does it7. a. tell him how if he agreesb. get into itThats how I would do it, and that is how i found out what jacking off was.

agreed, thats what i did. And thats also how i realised Masturbation was normal

i'd never want to masturbate with a mate lolbut each to there own i guess

People said its gay to materbate with your friends

Being gay is more of an emotional thing more so than a physical thing.I know many straight men who admitted to masturbating with friends when they were young. It's actually more common than most think.

hey lilpeter im in the same situation but more talking about masturbation than doing it with them..HELP

lmao.just like I said, bring it up.I dont think its gay. because, after all, your just experimenting things.I mean, from the amount or threads about this topic in this forum, id say almost everyone does it.

thanks for all your tips now we jerk off together pretty fun

i don't mean this to sound judgemental...but why do boys jack off together?

its kind of like an experimental thing.

i never thought about jerkin with a friend... wats it like?

I don't have any experience of masturbating with friends or mutual masturbation.
It maybe because I (or Chinese in Hong Kong) never sleep over in friends' home.

That's interesting Clarkson. Is there a cultural reason you've never spent the night at a buddy's house? Is that that common? Or is it just you?

It's cool to learn these little small things about other cultures that they don't teach in Human Diversity classes.

Hong Kong is a very tiny city. People live in small flats, not in houses. Some children have to share their rooms with their siblings. Therefore, it is not common to sleep over at friends' home. People may bother the family of their friend if they sleep over.Moreover, it does not take much time to travel from a friend's home to my home. (again, since Hong Kong is a really tiny city) And I think Chinese parents want their children to sleep at home rather than in their chilren's friend's home.I think playing and chatting with friends overnight would be fun! I hope I could have slept over with my best friend's home so that we could spend more time playing and chatting.Did you always sleep over at friend's home when you were young? I mean, all Americans and British and... everyone besides Chinese, like playing with friends at their home overnight? Yeah, I agree that the cultural differences are really interesting and I would like to know more about how others live and make friends and go to school, work, etc.Please just feel free to share! (or should I start a new threat to talk about life style and cultural differences? )

I think it's pretty common for American children to sleep over at their friends' houses. I did quite a bit, although probably more with cousins then friends from school. But the house size thing makes sense.

Do parents worry about their children if their children spend the night outside home or at friend's home?If someone sleeps over at his friend's home, what will the parents or family members of that friend do? Just go to bed and let them play on their own?

**As a parent of 3, i can say that i don't, or didn't, worry when my kids had sleep overs...........since i have been on here im not sure if i should be worried or not lol

Actually, joking aside, if my kids feel they have to experiment (as kids do) sexually, and as long as its done in a safe enviroment and its not with someone who should know better (like an adult) , i guess thats all i can hope for.......I used to have sleep overs every week when i was a teen, but only once did anything sexual happen, and that was late teens..........maybe times are different now, not sure if thats a good thing or not! **

You ask good questions.
Typically, parents will only let there kids sleep somewhere if they know where they're going, a bit about the family, that sort of thing. At least good parents. There is that worry that they might *say* they're at the friends house, but actually be out cruising the streets or something. But that just kind of goes with having kids, especially older kids. But, once again, that would be minimized if parents would make even the smallest effort to know where their kids are and about about the family where he's staying. Unfortunately, too many parents are lazy or don't give a rip.

My experience was that when you stay at a friends house, you are kind of subject to the rules of their house as far as bedtime and stuff. However, I think most parents kind of lighten up a little when their kid has a friend over. And usually it's on a weekend.