Is Anyone SAVING their self?

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Is anyone going to wait until marriage to have SEX?

Not me(or at least I don't intend to), are you?

I dunno yet

I am still a virgin myself. I am just waiting until it is going to be mutual sex, that is in it for the emotional connection and not so much the physical pleasure.

I got tired of waiting. lol. I approach it this way... I want to be the best for the woman I decide to marry.Then there are other factors. I know a couple that are very good for each other. Almost that model relationship everybody wants. Well, they've been together since they were 17 and finally got married when they were both 26. She was the only girl he'd ever been with. Pretty soon, that instinct to "spread the seed" began to overwhelm him and when he started thinking too much. It was like he felt remorse for not experiencing other women... Their marriage almost ended, but he snapped back in place when he was about to lose her.I don't know. Maybe I'm wrong, but I'm not so sure about the waiting for marriage thing. These days, the sanctity of marriage isn't taken as seriously as it used to. A lot of couples who wait until marriage has sex and then gets divorced... Not saying there aren't any who make it.

Well, I believe it is ALWAYS going to be different for a female, if she goes around with plenty of men she is considered a WHORE...but for a guy...it just gives him more "experience" but either way..women should not care about what other people think,, they should do what ever the hell they please...

yeah fi you are mature about anything you should do it...

Very true about the double standard. But, I can see why it exists. Men instinctually have the drive to "spread the seed". In this day and age, humans try to defy instinct all the time. That's what separates man from beast.

I wanted to, it just didn't happen.

yep totally agree with you websexinfo

In reply to: A lot of couples who wait until marriage has sex and then gets divorced... There is no correlation between the two.In fact, I think you'll find just the opposite. Couples who wait until they are married have a lower divorce rate.

damnit damien...stop making errors

There is no causal effect between the two but there is a correlation. Just because there is a correlation does not mean they cause each other.

Ill tell you this,dont buy the cow if you can fuck it for free.or something like that people who nevr have sex and get married always have to wonder if they missed something by only having a single partner. I thnk that alone leads to affairs and divorce.I have no evidence, just a personal opinion.

I dont believe saving oneself is particularly natural or healthy. I'm happy to take it as it comes.

I think you misunderstood what I was trying to say Jon.I'm saying there is no CORRELATION even between waiting till marriage to have sex and divorce. I challenge anyone to show me valid statistics that say otherwise.And, as you helped to clarify, I'm not looking even for causation, but merely correlation.

then yes I did misunderstand you..

yeh that was my philosophy too, im not a virgin anymore though

First off I'm nbot a virgin. Second, I couldn't wait till I was married, cause so far it's only legal in one state, and GW is trying to get it banned in the US which is unconstitutional, so if so...Canada, here I come

well how I grew up, saving yourself is "sacred" you know... the whole purity thing. growing up in a church can be a pain. and that's not true whoever said that lie. My mom was a virgin until... her late 20s since she didn't trust anyone in america at the time lol. and let me tell you... she and my dad... FREAKY DEAKY NASTY BEASTS! all I have to say, nasties. Why do you think I have so many crazy siblings? omg... nightmares... abi shutup now.It's funny though. You're on this subject and I had just gone to a youth network at my church and they did a skit about purity. It was this girl who had a rose and each time she had sex with a different guy they took a petal. And when she got to her husband it was petalless... if that's a word. It was pretty deep. Then came the sermon. Talk about pressure. But whatever. The youth in my church ALWAYS get the talk about sex. Always. I guess I'm saving myself... not like I have a choice. Probably until 21 the earliest... don't know. 29 the latest lol

well saving urself for until marriage has some GREAT advangates to it...First off you dont have to worry about STD'S or pregnancy ...second, what more beautiful wedding present could you give to your husband than your virginity. I think that would be really nice...but thats just my opinion