why when an anniversy of a loved ones death or friends death comes up , while i that day i felt depressed and feel like i'm reliving it again ? "tears"
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Anniversy of a loved ones death and depression
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heyy this is my first entry (ever), but ill do my best to be helpful... im not sure how depressed u mean and all, but its normal to be extra sad on the annaversary of the death/etc. just remember that everyone has their time (and i mean this in a non religious way) but ya no. everyone cant live forever. i no its sad and theres no reason for u not to be but its not controllable that they're gone so it may be easier to accept taht they're gone and that ull always love them and be sad, then to dwell on it because it cant be reversed.
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My grandmother died a year ago today.. i thought i would be ok.. but its really hard.. i cried most of this afternoon just sitting on the edge of my bed.. it is hard to handle.. but i guess you have to realize that they are in a better place and are probably happier where they are.
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it'll be okay, i watched my grandparents die ( 2 separate occasions) and i feel guilty because 1 i didnt cry, and 2 i didnt do anything..ive been so depressed since it happened, and on their bdays it hurts..and coming up is my grandpa's death anniversary.
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Nope, never bothered me.
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Alot of people have different ways of taking and handling death.. its definetly not an easy thing to take.. I remember when i was younger i never knew what dieing and all that was all about until my cousin died when i was 11 and he was 21.. i was really scared because honestly.. i didnt really understand it.. i knew what was happening but i didnt know why things like that could happen to such an amazing person.. then i noticed when i went into highschool that things like that happen more often.. and then my grandma died.. and my best friend and another friend and my 2 uncles.. it is depressing.. but you learn to live with it and i learned to understand that god makes his choices for a reason..I blabber too much