How do you know if you're good-looking? (for boys)

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a unanimous positive decision? cute even?! as cliché as it may sound, I'm still trying to grasp the fact that we're all talking about the same picture here! wow you don't know how happy I am. This has been bugging me the last week as I was trying to find my camera lol. I didn't expect this kind of a response but I guess I'm going to have to agree with you. (you guys would have no reason to lie to me =P). wow lol. I'm so confused/happy O_O. I've always thought of myself as a little on the ugly side. I keep thinking you guys must've all said those things because of the fact that the picture made me look better somehow but the more I try and prove that to myself the more I realize it looks exactly like me. (if that makes sense)and Aimakoko, that one really got to me lol. "you look cute". I don't know if you really mean that or you're just saying that to be nice???? Because whenever I'm around/talking to girls I keep thinking that they think I look ugly. I don't know, it's just really weird to suddenly change how I think I appear to girls. O_O So does that mean you think I would look good enough to ask a girl out or something? Sometimes (aside from an overall shyness I have), I feel like I don't want to say something to a girl because I don't want to embarrass myself as some creepy-looking guy talking to her. If you really meant that you've made my day I guess I should say thanks for assuring me I look OK and I do thank you , but wow, this is weird. I don't know, it's just that this is not how I've always thought about how I look. This is so awesome lol. I feel just like better overall now - its hard to explain haha. Thank you very much.

There are also very thin people who think they're fat. At least you don't have a major psychological problem like they do.

Ah, I see you have some ethnicity in ya. I have to repost what I said earlier.Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Some women will think you're hot, others won't. I'm an Asian guy that lives in the South. (US) Not very many of us around. Anyway, in my area some girls have a flavor for asian guys and a lot don't. I just have to face that reality and not to let it discourage me.

Uh, yeah I meant what I said. Otherwise I probably wouldn't have posted. If you asked me out, I would probably say yes. Except I wouldn't, but not because you are ugly. I would say no because I have a boyfriend, and because this is the internet. But if I didn't have a boyfriend, and if I knew you in real life, I would say yes.

exactly. do you know how annoying it gets when people ask me what I am? umm a girl. and then when I find out they mean what ethnicity/race I tell them black or if I just feel like being rude I say look at my parents. it does get annoying. but asian guys are cute don't let anyone tell you otherwise.

Well you got it better than me people tell me what I am by where I live. If I lived in California I am mexican if I live in Florida I"m Cuban, and if I lived in New york I am Puerto Rican thats annoying. Now in georgia I'm Mexican and people only say that once because I tell them Mexican isn't a race eigther call me hispanic or Colombian it bugs me alot.

I always tell people I'm American... Not exactly what they want, but whatever.

lol ew that's disturbing. I've had people argue with me about my own ethnicity. They tell me not even ask but tell me that I'm half white or something and feel it's a necessity to get their point through or vice versa. So I've pretty much learned to ignore it. When I go to the Brazilian down the block from my school I usually don't have to worry about interrogations like that since they know my family so well so... I should just stick with that ID lol

I know what you mean. People like to tell me i'm Puerto Rican eventhough I remind them i'm Portuguese. I just want to tell them to buy a damn map.

lol oh yah! or... have a t-shirt that says it so you don't get awkward look from people

lol. "I am not a Puerto Rican". I'd get beat up at school for that.

Everyone around here is all mixed up, and randomly speak English, Spanish, and sometimes Creole-tinged French to me.

lol. Trust I had to bring out a map once. Guy ask me where I'm from I said Colombia he was like for real what part of mexico is that in. I flip told him Colombia is in South America he was amazed and said wow I didn't know mexico was in South America. Ended up punching him in his stomach and brought out a map.

In reply to:Ended up punching him in his stomach and brought out a map.The kingdom of heaven is at your fingertips all you need to do is open your heartI haven't been in any ethnic fights here. Most white people here are from somewhere else.

True lived in miami white people had different relative who married a cuban whis cousin is haitian and brother married a balck dude. I didn't have a problem with ethnicity until I moved to a white community. Yet I am latino and proud so fighting and being a sexy good dancer is in my blood.

I am physically what my genes made me. I'm neither proud nor not proud.

Talking to yourself there Steve?

Is reality real? Or are we all just characters in a newt's dream?

Correction I am proud of being latino. My genes are great wouldn't have it any other way.

If you were born into an Irish family, you'd say the same about being Irish. It's genetic and cultural patriotism.