Hey guys, new to these boards.K, well, I just had a few questions. Well, my girlfriend and I have been getting pretty serious, and it looks like it won't be long before we finally go ahead and have sex. We've been talking about it for awhile, and it seems like something we both want to do. The only problem is, I'm uncircumsized and have never really been able to retract the foreskin all the way. It seems as though the foreskin is tight right around the middle of the head, so I can only get it about a quarter(ish) of the way down. In addition to the fact that I can't get the foreskin down, I've never really masturbated in the traditional fashion. When I do masturbate, I'll usually place the tip of my finger on the foreskin while it covers the head completely and move my finger in a circular motion, stimulating the head directly. I guess my questions come in here. Since I can't retract the foreskin all the way, is sex impossible? Is it possible but just a bad idea? Will it be so painful that I should really just avoid it? Will the fact that I'm not used to 'normal' stimulation have any negative effects? Thanks for listening, and any replies would be greatly appreciated! Oh yeah, and we'd be using a condom, of course, if that makes any difference as to how much the foreskin wouuld be 'pulled on'.
Sex and uncircumsized!
No, sex is not impossible for uncircumsized guys. But, you do have to stretch the foreskin so that it can be retracted. See the forum on foreskin and circumsion for details.
But it doesnt matter if it doesnt retract right?
Sex with a condom is no problem at all. However without a condom you will have difficulties, but you should be using a condom anyway.
I have to say that I love the uncicumsized penis! . .I wish all were that way . . cruel and unusual to circumsize . .anyway . . as a woman . . some of the best sex I've had was with uc men . . because . .it seemed . .that they got way more out of it . . rather than just thrusting . . .way more sensitive for them . . and . .thusly . . more enjoyable to me! . . rock on, you uc man, you!
Haven't posted here in a while, but I felt the need to give you some reassurance. When I first started having sex my foreskin didnt retract more then about 3-4 cms (certainly not below my glans). I can honestly say it has never been a problem for me. I didnt even realise your foreskin was meant to be retracted fully until about a year ago! I've had sex with and without condoms and it was fine without fully retracted skin.What you may find though is your skin will naturally start retracting back while you are having sex. For a while it may be a little strange having something in direct contact with your glans, but you get used to it eventually. In the worse case it may be a little painful, which if it does you really shouldnt carry on, but you know your own limits.Hope that helps. BTW I started retracting my foreskin a little each day and now I can retract to below my glans. I cannot retract fully as my frenulum wont allow it, but I'm perfectly happy with my achievement so far!
I am uncircumsized and I have sex nightly, to be frank.
I CANNOT retract my skin, either. I haven't even been using condoms. At first, HELL YES I was wondering the same thing, but get rid of your anxiety first, then you can tackle your physical "hinderance."
My foreskin only retracts when it is flaccid.
My girlfriend lubes up naturally A LOT when she is turned on. I found that since she gets so wet, I can just slip myself in her fully hard with my skin not even getting pressured to retract. I've been doing this almost every night.
I've noticed under two circumstances the skin tries to come back, and my skin CAN NOT safely come back when I'm fully hard. One is when she is on top and tries to sit down on my penis. Something about the position tries to get my foreskin to retract only sometimes though. The other circumstance is when she just isn't that wet.
If she isn't that wet, she's not ready for penetration anyhow and you can go about more foreplay to get her to excrete her love juice. :P
Anyhow, I've pondered even circumcision, as my stretching exercises have yielded little results, but personally, I don't really care.
I dont mind living the rest of my life the way I am right now. I remember before I started havung sex, I was DEAD scared, and even posted on these boards.
Now my girlfriend and I have gotten more physically intimate and she even gave me head before we'd start having sex.
Don't listen to other guys. Even though your foreskin is too tight, you can still have sex. I have sex all the time and the anxiety was the only real problem I had.
Good luck . :smile:
Just wait for that day when your girl/ a girl gets dry and your skin is forcibly retracted. That'll be fun.