if my GF is giving me a handjob, a blowjob or if shes fucking me and its really starting to get to heri have no problem cuming if im the one doing the work and im wondering whether i have an issue with control, has anyone else ever had a problem like this? if so how did you overcome it if you did?
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I cant cum....
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It's more difficult for any guy to cum if he's not in control of the pace. Some guys can't cum at all from a blowjob or handjob because of that - that's quite common, and most guys do last longer from girl-on-top positions. At least then you can change positions.
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This is really not an unusual problem. Your body is used to the speed, grip, etc. of your hand. You might try laying off the masturbation for awhile and see if that doesn't help.
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I've got the same problem with my girlfriend. If we're really going at it like wild animals, I can go all night. If its slow passionate sex, I'm done in about 10 minutes. I enjoy both, but most of the time the furious sex is provoked by her and her actions/movements, so I'm not really in control of the speed.If you're like me, you're more concerned with getting her off than yourself. As selfish as it sounds, try doing things that feel good for you during sex. I promise she'll get off also.
