Hey forum, it's been a while since my last post, but I've been busy with my new band (HELL YEA!!)I just got on here no less that 15 minutes ago, and read the ONE thing that could utterly fuck up this Christmas. In the last Thread I created, if you read it and remember, I was having some girl issues at the time. She's gone (thank {Insert Deity Here}) There's a NEW girl, and, like all new ANYTHING, new problems.When I met her, I didn't waste time like I did last time, I started working my magic, for lack of a better term. I won the first battle, getting to know her. The second one was mine, getting into her little Ring of Trust. And then the third 'battle' became a war. A guy she's known for the past year or so, and had a crush on the whole time, has now begun to start HIS move. Great, the same FUCKING thing that happened last time!! BUT, I do see ONE small thing that could keep me in the runnings. He's 18, and she's 16. One's an adult, not the other. Maybe, just MAYBE, he has a conscience. OK, 2 things. She has told me, very recently, actually, that she doesn't want to be in a relationship. 'How does that help you?' you may be wondering. The way I see it, if she says the same thing to HIM as she did ME, he'll quit, whereas I haven't. HIGHLY doubt it, knowing how attracting she is, but hey, it's all I've got. I guess I'm posting this for two reasons. 1) To get all this SHIT into a visual format so that it's not clogging up my head the rest of the night. 2) Maybe someone who reads this will have some insight or advice. ANYTHING would help. I just need something.
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You're seem quite realistic, I admire you being able to keep your brain and your heart linked.I'd say you can probably 'sneak' in as a friend over a longer period of time, rather than moving in more aggressivly "Making the moves".
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Just curious, how old are you? I'm going to assume your 16, or around that age. I would be careful. The girl could tell you that she's not ready for a relationship as a means to get you to call the 'war' off, and give up; so she can in-fact date the other guy.Play it safe, and do something sweet for her, but don't go overboard.NOTE: Overboard would be taking her out on a romantic evening complete with a midnight stroll under the moonlight.
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He's 17.
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I second Hawker's advice