OK so I constantly get erections when I am around attractive girls. I can safely say that at least 80% of my classmates don't have this since I don't really see the other 20% around girls. It's bothering me and it's also the reason I prefer to stay away from dating girls. It's almost like I can't help but think of them in a sexual way. Is there anything I can do about this? Will it stay with me for my entire life?
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What can I do about unwanted erections
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naw, its just part of adolesence and puberty chances are itll calm down in a few years.
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Thats puberty for you yehas. Welcome to A2A forums.
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I never get tired of saying it: Enjoy the erections while they last
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I guess not, I also get them all the time, and then I just look if anyone is watching and quickly re-adjust! that's basically all I can say! And also, as soon as you start having sex and growing older, it will go away!
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Spontaneous (and unwanted) erections are common with all adolescent males. During puberty your body suddenly has a bunch of unfamiliar hormones to deal with and erections are part of the mix. I guess it's just your body preparing for adulthood. You will most likely continue to be having the erections for a few years. It doesn't always have to be something sexual to set them off. There really isn't anything you can do about them, but ever since the days of Adam and Eve, all young men have had to deal with them. And you can too.
If you're interested in dating girls, go ahead. Don't let fear of an erection at an unwanted time bother you. Chances are that it won't both your girl. Who knows? Maybe it will flatter her (even she even notices).
Someone else on here said it best. It seems like there's a flashing light on you saying "Look at me," but in reality nobody usually pays any attention to it. -
Thanks, I'll try to adjust...
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As most have said here, it's probably a hormone thing. When I was younger I'd get a stiffy over the sight of a bit of ankle flesh! But as you get older your sexual senses become less acute so don't worry. In the meantime try wearing longer t-shirts that hang over your crotch area and (not sure if this is medically such a good idea) wear tighter underpants. That's what I used to do and sometimes still do - especially on dates!
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hey... welcome to the boards mate... there's no point in really replying here... becuase it's all been said before, but what you might find helpful are just little things to do when you DO get them... things that I do:-If you wear a belt... tuck it in there.sometimes, I think a quick little mastubating session in the morning can help a little.stick your hand in your pocket and kinda hold it to the size until it subsides (this might make it stay longer though)
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its purbertyjust try to think of something that turns u off to get rid of them. or something that gets your mind off it like you n your friend (whos a guy) ridin your bikes to the local food martor something like that
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Like everyone else says, its puberty. They only thing you can do right now is try to get them to go down. When I get them in school (which seems to happen about 3-4 minutes before I know I am going to have to get up for class change/to present something) i quickly adjust it so it is pointing up towards me and tucked under my belt. This usually makes them go away fairly quick.
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well i have the same problem even reading shit i got erections. I really like women but for some fucked up reason even since i mistakenly click on gay porn and saw it i get erections even talking about gay stuff. but im not gay.
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That has happened to me before. It is probably just because during puberty/teenage years, anything that has anything to do with sex or nudity can make you have an erection. It doesn't have anything to do with you sexuality, so you shouldnt worry.
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ok thanks guys cause im 15 now i just started yes im a late bloomer
